I'm just wondering what are some good compliment openers that girls like to here. There was a worker in the cafe today that I thought was attractive and seemed like a really friendly, unintimadating sort of person...and i wanted to tell her this and ask her for a coffee but in a way that wouldn't come off wrong?

You can't say anything "wrong". You can just say it in a wrong way. If you think she looks friendly - tell her.

If you need to think in a right compliment to tell her how shes beautiful and nice, so it cant be called natural game.

Man, please dont concentrate all of your efforts in just one girl, that attitude just makes the deal even greater, I dont know if you doing so, I hope not. Its just an advice. Shot em all.

-Fu$$

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I don't believe in compliment openers. Women are used to that #1, #2 you are placing them on a pedestal without even knowing them. I know you want to make them feel 'special', but forget that. They have to earn that SPAM from you. You are going off her 'looks', which is a HUGE mistake.

She may seem like a really friendly, unintimadating person, but that doesn't make it so. You might be dealing with a complete psycho and not even know it.

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Yup. In the first stages of the interaction, is dangerous to figure out what you "want", never show interest without attraction.

When you let the things clear between you two, the game is over. The key here is keep her in suspense, wondering about you all the time, that indefinition will associate your image with strong and poweful emotions in her mind.

We, as men, are generally inclinated to define the relationship, heres comes the mistake. The magic ceases when she knows whats come next.

Fu$$

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Nothing great will ever be achieved without great men, and men are great only if they are determined to be so.
- Charles de Gaulle

It's never too late to be who you might have been.
- George Eliot

The key here is keep her in suspense, wondering about you all the time, that indefinition will associate your image with strong and poweful emotions in her mind.

The magic ceases when she knows whats come next.

Amen...

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I do . . .

As long as it is truly is a compliment OR a totally funny joke and NOT some stupid cliche.


JOKE compliments: (sorry just made em' up)

"Woh, every time you pour that coffee, I can see your biceps just rip out of your upper arm. . . .I've been working out. You think they'll hire me?'

"Wow, that guy is totally staring at you! . . .Oh no . . wait a sec. . he's staring at the sponge cake. What a dork, I totally think you're much hotter than a sponge cake."

TRULY a compliment:

"Cool . . . the way you handled that belligerent customer had CEO written all over it. Wow . . . I think I'm in love . . . " (seems like a joke but man, this one girl really made me feel this way)

The point of openers is to get a conversation going. A decent "compliment" really doesn't hurt . . .

Paying a compliment isn't paramount to putting a girl on a pedestal.

you can kind of cold read open her on that! like: "hey! I think you're a really friendly, unintimadating kind of person! Am I right?"

she probably won't disagree

giving a plain compliment is a thing to befriend open guys to win the girl in the group!

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