So I am going to watch two movies with a girl in the near future... We are watching the Lion King and the Fox and the Hound...

Regarding the movie: FOx and the Hound, she said that she's prolly gonna cry during that movie.... Is that good or bad?

How do I escalate kino during those movies????

I feel like she thinks of us as firends as of now... but i'm not really sure.... I don't wanna make just a sudden move... any thoughts?

I suggest you read up in the other forums. For now, I'll go ahead and respond here. Feel free to PM me if u have more questions.

1) You are going to meet girls other than her in your life. If your on this forum and obviously making progress (you do have a girl coming over - even if just as friends... more on that later) so in no time you'll probably look back on this girl and on this post as "hah I can't believe..."

2) With that said, you know all you'll ever need to know regarding what to do. You know how to escalate, it'll strike you in the moment. With out thinking, you'll notice your hand move from here to there and you'll get compliance. And if for what ever odd stupid fucking reason you do not, it is of little consequence. You are unapologetic regarding your intent and are not ashamed. (Please, don't take this as you should rape her )

3) Movies are good. DO NOT WAIT too long. If you do, just wait till the movie is over and then allow the magic to happen. I'll let you think about why.

4) More importantly, if the movie is boring or your not into it (Lion king???), don't pretend that you are. If I were in your shoes, and found the movie boring, I'd probaly let myself be distracted by her ass or tits.

HB: "Why aren't you watching!"
Me: "You're breasts are more entertaining"

Unapologetic and direct.

A minor response

Remember kino is not about you. It's not for your enjoyment (though it is enjoyable). It's about her and getting her accustomed to your touch and closeness. It's about connecting with her on a physical (not necessarily sexual) level.
Too often newbies think they have to feel-up a girl right away or they think kino is only about the erotic parts of the a woman. They confuse kino with foreplay. There is a time to get sexual, but you have to build up to that first with simple kino.

Try walking arm and arm with her. Try holding her hand or put your arm around her. Give her a hug to greet her (a real one, not a one-armed back pat). This is the essence of kino. Innocent touch. Don't be afraid to innocently touch her. She won't freak out if you don't.

One thing that I do is put my arm around a woman as soon as we sit down for a movie. Then I very lightly and gently move my thumb up and down her shoulder. My thumb only moves an inch back and forth, but it shows her that I am comfortable touching a woman and understand how sensitive a woman's skin is.

The Lion King is my favourite movie.

Seriously, I love the songs. Every time I watch it I'm singing for weeks.

Regarding escalation. Slow and steady is the key. Don't just from sitting on other ends of the couch to grabbing her boobs.

With movies I'd straight away set the idea in her mind and put your arm around her as you sit down, saying "we're good friends, we can cuddle". Do this just as Simba is born on Pride Rock.

Then as Simba and Narla become friends and leave to find the elephant graveyard maybe you can start playing with the hair at the back of her neck.

As Scar is plotting the murder and as Mufasa is killed, you may want to begin to pull her into your chest a bit more so that she's leaning into you.

Then as Simba is growing up in exile with Timon and Pumba, you might want to mention that she smells good and go to smell her neck. Going into close to her face with yours will bring up feelings of kissing you inside of her. So be sure to exploit those and either kiss her or if your more advanced, avoid kissing her and let the tension build.

You can take it from there... As Narla and Simba have a child, maybe you can be making a baby too

LoveJunkie,

When Watching movies instead of sitting next to her i let her sit then lay down on her lap... and during the movie carress her knee or something... also i place her left hand on my stomach or my arm and let her caress me...

Kino when youre watching a movie at home is relatively simple, because there sint a worry of other people seeing, so she'll be more relaxed. Disney movies are greatbecause they are movies that bring back memories, which will make her feel happy and more at ease. During the movie, lightly graze her hand or her knee or something, or rest your hand ontop of hers and trace lines on her hand. Usually she'll reciprocate within a few seconds. If she doesnt, try again, but a little more pressure.

From my experience, movie nights are great times to get K-closes, and me doing the hand grazing usually escalates into holding, thn you just approach for the kiss by kissing her neck or cheek lightly, or moving your head next to hers. It should take care of itself from there.

Hope this helps

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I think you should start out by just kicking back and having your arm around her waist. When I was afc I knew it to feel akward when you have to escalate from nothing during the movie.

This starts it out where you are comfortable with being close and touching each other. Its important that you starting around her waist because its casual sexual kino wheras arm around her shoulders is a common friendly thing. It also eliminates the need to work you way down, which can feel like approval seeking if your not already in sexual kino.


For more moves to escalate into check out the cuddle sutra.

I think you should start out by just kicking back and having your arm around her waist. When I was afc I knew it to feel akward when you have to escalate from nothing during the movie.

This starts it out where you are comfortable with being close and touching each other. Its important that you starting around her waist because its casual sexual kino wheras arm around her shoulders is a common friendly thing. It also eliminates the need to work you way down, which can feel like approval seeking if your not already in sexual kino.


For more moves to escalate into check out the cuddle sutra.

The longer your leave escalation the more weird it's going to be, therefore the quicker you escalate the better.

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Intro

So instead of attacking this problem during the movie lets think of the bigger picture. I will tell you now that personally I dislike canned material...the most creative and interest inducing ideas are situational. Begin your game in texts, in phone calls, online msging. You have to read her, judge her, know what she likes, dislikes, wants, craves to increase your situational game efficiency.

From what I can tell so far she is: cute, caring, sweet, loving, attention seeking, looking for the one kind of girl. You need to use most of this to your advantage and change others. This is what I base most of the following on

Before the movie

Now, I cannot give you specifics of what to do before the movie, because honestly it changes with every girl.

I had a very similar problem; however, I did not know what I wanted. Important things I focused on were
1) There were other girls in my life, she had to show me why she was my priority
2) Everything is on my time, I am busy when I want to be, I am available when I want to be
3) Kino from the beginning
• Hugs, hands, hair...etc.
• Idea combined with Zendaus post – When you see her right away hug around her waist which causes sexual kino as oppose to a hug around her shoulders friendly kino.
• You could go arm in arm, however, I believe that she is not just getting accustomed to your touch, but she is getting accustomed to you touching her. The more your hands interact with her body, the faster (do not get me wrong Kino is a patient and acquired skill) kino escalation with go
• Hand at her lower back to lead her – personal favourite

During the movie

1) MOVIE KINO BEGINS WHEN THE MOVIE BEGINS GOT IT!!. Do not be afraid to initiate.
2) Movie Kino
• Again, to recap, I believe that she is not just getting accustomed to your touch, but she is getting accustomed to you touching her. The more your hands interact with her body, the faster (do not get me wrong kino is a take your time kinda skill) kino escalation with go
• Your both in front of the couch, you position yourself right beside her, she sits down, and you follow with your arm conveniently falling around her shoulders. If you get shafted and she leans the other way, leave, go upstairs to get some water do not tell her where you’re going, when you get back grab a blanket and sit close to her putting the blanket on both of you
• Hands, neck, legs, hair...etc.
• You should always be aware of female erogenous zones--search it
• If she feels uncomfortable this is your part to glow of Alpha Male confidence and reassurance. Either say nothing, focus on the movie, or reassure as LoveJunkie said “we're good friends, we can cuddle” maybe alter it a little to convey sexuality instead of friendship (although LoveJunkie had an amazing line, and personally I used it after reading his post) “we’ve known each other a long time, we can cuddle” if you have not known her that long then you can say this well before you cuddle “ I’ve known you for a couple days but it feels like so much longer”


Movie Choice
I do not think you should watch Lion King or Fox and Hound, instead you should watch Aladdin ( or another movie that conveys sex) . Do not ask her if she wants to watch it, instead you can surprise her with it -- “Hey, on my way over, I’ll bring the movie, you just make sure the popcorns made” or you can manipulate the conversation – every girl has fallen in love with the idea of love and romanticism –conveying it sexually might also help subconscious thinking – “So, you know which movie I have been thinking about lately? (which?) Aladdin, have you ever seen it? (yes or no) Either go off about Aladdin and Jasmine or you can neg her if she hasn’t seen it “YOU haven’t seen Aladdin??? Almost every girl has seen Aladdin, wow, you have had a deprived childhood; it must be your lucky day because I feel like watching it again. If you decide to continue with your provided movie choices, I would lean towards Lion King and reread LoveJunkies post.

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Aaahhahahhah! I loved the way you gave this advice

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This is my 100th post and all I got is: hehe

Oh my god that response cracked me up so hard! Everyone else seems to have answered this question pretty thoroughly, so I have nothing more to add. Good luck!

ya I thought that response was funny but good too lol