Okay guys, this is something of my own here that I've just learned from trial and error. Forgive me if I don't use every acronym or create a synonym for a preexisting PUA term. Of course, I'm still working on it, but this is the idea(s).

Dancefloor game. This works a lot for me at parties. It is purely about body language. What are you telling her? What should you be telling her?
1) Show dominance but not aggression
2) Increase sexual-tension but build comfort
3) Influence her decisions but let her choose on her own

These are three things where you need to find a balance, and they all are (or can, or should) be done non-verbally. Usually the parties I'm at have really loud rap/hip hop/techno going on at your ears. It's loud, convos are not easy, there's a bunch of dudes around, and every girl has friends. Here's mostly what you see: There's a lot of girlies in a mob dancing around with their other girlfriends and dudes they know or dudes dancing on them not getting any further. Like a ring there are guys just watching around them, AFC's. The ladies are from 4's to 9's, and the hottest one (9.5), sorry, is not the target. She's a snare.

What's a "snare"? A snare is a girl who knows she's the hottest, but is only there as a foil (literary term) to the other girls and to make herself feel good by turning down guys and making fun of other girls. She may be hot, but sorry, I don't want her.

What works: Enter... me (you). You see all the AFC's, beer in hand, standing still, watching other people having fun, nodding heads. Skip them. Go to the crowd, always moving, never circling. Creepy dudes circle. Creepy dudes see a girl turn around and start humping them. Just move back and forth looking over the shoulder for a girl you want who isn't being jock-strapped.

This is the ideal body positioning for the silent approach on the dance floor
/ (Girl)
\ (You)

Here's where you show dominance. Look at her in the eyes at an angle, head cocked, and scoop her hand (right to right). Not a grab. Not a pull. And just lift it gently, eyes connected. Just your fingertips in her palm, and lift.

Now, in the same motion, spin her half way and her ass is on your cock. Modern American style "dancing". If you what to fuck with her you can give her an extra spin or whatever. If you are the lead, you are dominant.

Now is when to increase sexual tension. In the beginning she doesn't trust you yet. Touch her on her legs, always moving your hand, on her arms. Never for more than 3 seconds at a time is what I do before somewhere else. Put your fingers in hers and hold her hand. You are now dominant and guiding what she does. She might move her hands, with yours, across her tits, pelvis. These are IOI's dumb shits! She loves her hair being touched, but don't mess it up. Remember: when she touches her hair she is interested/aroused. Why wouldn't you do the same things that arouse her? Kino escalation increases sexual tension.

If you do it right, she'll stay on you for the next song. If she gets off of you it's not happening.



This next song is for higher kino. Boob kino. Pussy kino. Still moving and not for too long. Since your hand should be in hers, spin her back around to you. She might fight it, because she's not used to dancing facing a guy. Push her other shoulder to make her turn around, and take a step back. Your hand is lightly touching the underside of her palm, and you walk backward, slowly, to the wall. You lean against it. She'll start dancing on you again. Push (and literally push) any AFC's on the wall out of the way with your free hand. They won't do anything because they will be astonished!

On the wall, this means she is isolated, you have chosen her, and she'll stay for a while. Super kino escalation here. Turn her around to have her face you, grab her with one leg, or guide her onto your leg to grind on facing you. Whatever. Bring her close, side face to side face. Lightly blow on her hair by her ear. Push her hair back. Push her back of her head lightly to turn it and kiss close.




Lot's of times I've got a beer. She gets a sip when she does something good, like stay, or does some special dance move. Just put it in her hand, then when she takes a sip, grab it back. It's still mine.

If she doesn't mind taking a sip of your beer, it means she's not scared of germs. I once had a girl say she wouldn't kiss me because she was scared of germs. Everytime with a beer, I didn't get that response.

I know some guys think drinking is a no-no, but American girls seem to think you're a holier-than-thou stuck up or a nerd, at least in what I've experienced.

Let me know what you think.

Silence is an excellent communicator.

Cobra45