Coming off as an arrogant dick I still think is better than coming off as a spineless pussy pushover. I've been both & I'd take that over the other anyday. What you probably need to do is just smile more to balance the confidence with a good happy vibe.

Confidence is conveyed with your body language, & I think that is the biggest DHV you can have. It tells everyone around you everything positive you want them to know about you. If your that confident & balance it with fun people will just sense things are great in your life & start gravitating to you I've found. I try to imagine myself beaming confidence & happiness anytime I'm in a bar & do that through body language. I gets me in that state as well. Still trying to stack that with more sexual intent & I think I will have it then.

Come off as confident & happy & you hardly ever get mean blowouts or amoging from what I have seen.

I also think, we undersetimate body language of the women. It's much easier to pick up woman who likes your apperance.

I really found the only thing that improved my body language was working out.. I was pretty skinny to begin with, so no matter how good my body language was it was really just my body that i needed to fix. I would just be uncomfortable being seen at certain angles or in certain positions.I found squatting deadlifting shoulder pressing benchpressing were really all i needed to get the body i needed now i don`t even have to think about it it`s just how i stand or position myself. i`m not ridiculously jacked or anything i`m still skinnier than your average dude, but i think for some people there`s no way to fake it you just really gotta put in the work.

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i think it`s also about conveying to AMOGs that you can kick some ass if you need to

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