I think ive lost my game! I just dont seem to be the same way i was with girls and not had sex in quite a while. I dont have the killer instinct i used to have and seem to fall at the last hurdle!

Can anyone help and give me some advice to get back in my game?

Cheers in advance people.

The fastest and hardest way to get back in sync with the person you want to be is to change your daily routines and lifestyle.

If you stay home, eat ice cream and play world of warcraft during the week, you can't expect to go out on a friday night and take home HB9.5.

To say "you have to force yourself to go out" is a bit cliche now. But, make sure you are not in the house all the time - join a gym, take a book to Starbucks, find a group of people to play basketball or soccer with, enroll in a community college class (cooking is the best!), go to a book signing at a bookstore, go see a local band play a gig.

If you masterbate, force your self to go without for a week or too, no looking at net porn!!!, let your natural mojo build up. Eventually, your body will force you to go out.

When you go out, wear clothes that are freshly washed, make sure you don't have stubble or hair growing on your neck, clip you finger nails.

And remember, you're going out to have adventures and fun!!! Make it so.

Cheers for the advice,

I had been in the house loads for a while there but got back into the gym 2 weeks ago, re-sitting a exam so will be in uni and waiting for a start date for a job also so will be out making a point of hitting on chicks. I never thought about my routine untill you mentioned it. I was in thhis same situation untill i went to Canada for 3 months then came back and all was still good until i fell into this same routine again.

I was doing loads and out more when i was meeting chicks but now im not really out.

It really is about getting out and making the moves, i thought i was going to need a G-FRIEND!! NIGHTMARE!!

PS

Not a computer geek.

Hey2 man, we share the same problems here. And it is really annoying to have it. How long since you had you last "great game"?? I've been losing it for 1 week now.
And I"m still searching what causes this and realize that it's my routine. I barely go out from home this week.

I'm building it all again. You're not alone Lust09.