I've got a problem lately. It may be self contrived, but I feel out of step.
A month ago, I was pretty much on fire. I had at least three girls buzzing around in my life, wanting more, I of course was juggling, and having a good time. I was at a peak in my game, no doubt.
Since then, two of those girls exploded on me in separate incidents with regards to me being a player/not wanting a relationship etc.
This stems from the fact that:
a) I work a lot and will be out of town as of the summer for possibly a few years. I'm also planning on deploying to Afghanistan so.. no relationships lol.
b) Neither of these girls fit my somewhat picky model of the girl(s) I need in my life right now. This had to do with logistical and personality problems.

The other prospect faded slightly, probably my fault for not showing enough interest frankly.

Bottom line, here I am now. I feel totally out of state.
Since the two disastrous explosions, it seems a dry spell has set in that just won't quit. My personality has changed, I seem to have lost that innocent animal attraction I had developed. It hasn't been that long, granted, and I'll admit that I haven't been going out as much as usual.

I think I just need to get back out there and keep slugging.
However I wrote this too seek the advice of those who have had similar experiences and can share some wisdom.
Lay it on me brothers...

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From what you wrote,,,, I would really have to guess that you are just bored with the whole thing. Like you don't fu$king care. Seems like you've lost some motivation,,, because you're not excited about what you've been getting.

I think it's false that a guy has to continously get layed. Fact is,,, guys sometimes just don't need it. I think that's a great thing too. It shows we have control and are not needy. Fact is, pushing things when we are not in the mood just seems to make it a chore.

Maybe take a quick check of your goals. What are they? Do you want to bang every broad in town? Are you just looking to hang with that one special HB10 who actually has a brain?

If I was going out to the sand-box this summer,,, I'd set a goal for myself to find 2 open minded ladies for a three-some. That's a memory you'll keep for a lifetime. The fella's will think you're a god!

Good luck brotha!

MATE...I know somewhat how you feel, I have had a GF for about a year an a bit now and I feel like im out of it, but I have found that if my mates are "gaming" then I can somewhat live my social life through them.

Im in my last year at uni and i dont have time to go out at aswell. Although I wouldnt cheat on my GF I love having a chat and flirt and a dance with some of the talent on show. When I havent been out in a while I just find out what my mates are doing with the girls they have on the go and I can gain some "experience" through what they did/didnt do!

So I would suggest if you do have mates that are into it or are just generally good with woman, get every second of what they have been doing and not doing. Although you arent out with them or these girls, I find it like advice somewhat.

Might work for you might not. Good laugh for me.

LLR