The whole labelling mentality is hardly fruitful in any way. You create an identity to fulfil certain criteria. You cater to external factors instead of trying to figure out what you want for who you are.

Id say that if you get good results and make people happy, that is a good place to start. You influence people in a good way. Then figure out what you would like to add to your character and go from there.

Dont be a Bad Boy. Dont mess with people and take value. Its not productive. Dont fall into the trap of creating an identity around something just because you get strong reactions from women and people in general.

-miko

Totally agree with the posts but generally it will normally work for you in the beginning because your something different and if shes very good looking shes not used to guys acting that way. However i disagree with the dont make her thnk ur totaly uninterested part because if your gona do nothin then she wont approach if shes shy.

However when you start seein a girl it works totally against you as iv personaly found out over the last 2 months. It makes it very hard to trust you regardless if u start being the nice guy or not ("You change so much im not sure what your really like") and also its hard to shake off the player tag espeically if your mates or exes joke about what your past is like.Girls hate players for LTR altho a minority do like the challenge of taming a player

So the advice im offering is 1)Be the bad boy to a certain extent by giving the impression you could get other equally good or better girls to keep her on her toes initially 2)If you start seeing her tone it down the majority of the time unless you feel the need to show her she has to work 4 you!! (Jealously leads to great angry sex if used sparingly 3)Make sure your mates keep quiet and give nothin away about your previous conquests or the trust will be questioned

Hope that helps

Feel The Rod

good posts guys we're getting some insight

pros: isn't it obvious?
- not needy
- mysterious
- DHV aura
- ability to excite most girls

cons: ah! here is our problem
- can push girls away
- can seem sketchy
- offer little comfort to girls
- good way to earn them a slut reputation

Steward mentioned keeping your past conquests secret from the target. Good call.

This will tell her that you aren't a loud mouth and respect secrets, and she will worry less about being adventurous with you.
also good way to build mystery by not running your mouth about everything
great to hint. but leave it at that. cat-string theory.

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