So I approached a HB8 in class today and everything went fine for the first part. I was using natural game cause it was in class so anything canned would get funny looks and likely make the teacher pissed because im being a major distraction. Here was the convo though.

Me: Can I sit here?
HB8:Yah
Me: Hows it going?
HB8: Good, How about you?
Blah blah, I won't bore you with a page of small talk.

So I talk to her about the first problem the teacher gave us, and for the second problem the guy next to her jumped in, but she still asked me for help when they got stuck. Even accidentally kinoed when I opened my notebook. Here is the strange part. Its the end of class everyone is about to leave.

Me:Later
HB8: I'm sorry
(we both get up and leave)

Wtf??? I don't understand at all. Am I missing something? Is there a reason she apologized or am I just being stupid and overanalyzing this? Its such a strange answer it has me puzzled. I was thinking about reopening with "why did you say I'm sorry the other day?" What do you guys think? I got till wednesday(8/24/11) morning so any answers will become useless if you don't post them by tuesday night.

you pancake, she's sorry because she was tryin' something with you, silly

Very constructive(thats sarcasm if you can't tell). If you don't want to help me figure this out then fuck off. I already get enough crap from strangers, women, neighbors and friends about gaming girls, i don't need it from this site. You guys are suppose to be helpful to my game, not make me lose confidence and stop trying with girls. I know it probably won't work out this time, just help me figure out if I fucked this time, how I fucked up, and how to fix it. Shit talking doesn't get anyone anywhere.

TBH It's hard to tell how she said "I'm sorry". Because that an either be a Im not interested sorry if she said it pitifully which is hateful, or a flirty girlie sorry if she waslike sorry for bothering you which I would think is her trying to be cute.

And i dot think the guy above was being rude I think he meant she was playing with you.

Was it possibly about the boring comment you made?

i was obviously trying to help you, i'll translate my comment

come on, relax man, see things by what they, girls always have in mind that they wanna fuck or have something with you, so... if a guy gets in between your conversation and she says sorry afterward it's because she's giving some important meaning to what you were both having

get what i'm getting at?
and i was playing around, making things a little lighter, didn't want em to come up that way

and hurray for the brotherhood

I think she think she blew her chances, for whatever reason that might be. Or it could just be "I'm sorry (don't think there's going to be a 'Later')" letdown.

Anyway, approach her again and ask her subtly, in the conversation :

"So, why were you apologising yesterday?"

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Thanks guys, and sorry skygroove, I miss took your message for being harsher than you meant it to be. I was in a shitty mood yesterday. That doesn't excuse my behavior just that it explains it. Sorry I took it out on you. I'm going to reapproach her tommorow and ask her why she apologized. And I don't think she was bored because she was genuinely smiling and seemed happy I talked to her. Only one way to find out for sure. Thanks again.

So good and bad news. The bad news is I didn't even talk to the girl. Couldn't find her. The good news is I # closed another girl in the class. I guess the "I'm sorry" is going to stay a mystery then. Oh well.

it's a mystery indeed, but i don't think asking her about it is a good idea, because i feel like she wanted it to be vague because she could've said why she was apologizing, and she said it when you were leaving.

When someone apologizes to you then he must've done something wrong , unpleasant or even not doing a particular thing and they don't wanna mess it up with you, they want to fix things and have a better relationship with you.

It could been:
"I'm sorry we were supposed to work on this together but i let the other guy work on it with me"

Maybe she thought it was unpleasant or thought she would loose her chances with you because of it.
she would have said it in a serious way.

How was your BL when she was working with the other guy?
What was her state when she apologized?
Answers of those questions can help you figure out what she was apologizing for.

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