I'm not a pro on field but i'll sum my knowledge.
simple steps:
1- freeze out 2-3 days.
2- give her a short call to meet up and include
"i'm gonna be at *somewhere* you can join me!" or "i'm gonna be at *somewhere* you can meet me there"
3- meetup, try to be on time, not early, not late. she probably gonna be a little late, don't blaim her. but you can tease her with it.
4- check for Indicators Of Interest (IOI) if she's not sending try Demonstrating Higher Value(DHV) throw storie telling and non-verbally And/Or Neg her (backhanded compliment, the hotter she is, the most likely it will work on her) and TEASE her.
5-make her seek you approval, validating herself to you. "how old are you?" "I like smart girls are you smart?"
6-Kino escalate touch her in a none very sexual way, for exp, pull her to you when it's too crowded, remove something from her shirt, take her hand to move her somewhere ect. and escalate, if she's not into a certain kino, redo a safer one she already accepted and escalate.
7- she should be kissable right now, try Style's kiss test.
"i'm trying really hard not to kiss you right now" and push her off, if she re-initiate kino, go for the kiss.
and keep in mind that every hb has an attraction level, every step would require certain level of attraction, if it doesn't you're not ready yet for the next step.
This is according Mystery's M3 Model from his book Venusian Art.
Quote:
Here is a repost from the Mystery archive, the 13 steps of MM. This is actual
material, so let's discuss it after dissing the workshop reports.
"Here is the basic format to most approaches (3sets+):
1. smile when you walk into the room. see the group with the target and 3s
rule it. say HI. smile
2. recite a memorized opener, if not 2 or 3 in a row.
3. the opener should OPEN the group. when talking, ignore the target for the
most part. this is ACTIVE IGNORANCE.
4. neg the target with one of the slew of negs we've come up with.
5. convey personality to the entire group (using stories, SEX» MAGIC,
anecdotes, humor), paying particular attention the UGs. during this time,
the target sees you are the center of attention. you may do various
memorized routines like the photo routine to an obstacle and say to the
target when she wants to look at the pix, "wait your turn. wow, is she
always like that?"
6. neg the target again if appropriate. "pull my finger."
7. ask "so how does everyone know eachother?" if the target is with one of
the guys, find out how long they've been together. if a long time, eject
with PLEASURE MEETING YOU.
8. if she is not with one of the guys, say to the group, "Ive sorta been
alienating your friend (target). Is it alright if I speak to her for a
couple minutes?" they always say "uh, sure, if its ok with her."
9. ISOLATE her from the group by taking her 1:1 to sit with you. as you do,
do a hand kino test (does she squeeze back when you hold her hand, directing
her through the crowd?) Start looking for IOIs.
10. sit with her and do SEX» MAGIC, like a runecast for instance. Thats your
REASON for isolating. Or an ESP test where you hold her hands (again looking
for IOIs). Then do the digital photo routine. See if you can kiss her with
it.
11. Tell her beauty is common but rare is great energy and outlook. "what do
you have inside that would make me want to know you more than a mere face in
the crowd?" If she begins to give qualities, this is a positive IOI.
12. STOP TALKING. Does she reinitiate the chat with "So ..."? If so, you've
seen 3 IOIs and can ...
13 KISS CLOSE. right out of the blue. "would you like to kiss me?" if this
is impossible to perform due to the situation, then time constraint yourself
and say, "I have to go but we should continue this." # CLOSE, give phone
rules and leave."
Note to the guys who have taken the workshop: You always emphasize that all the
13 steps are important. IMHO this whole thing could be reduced into 7-8 steps.
You won't always isolate by doing Sex» Magic and you won't always initiate the
kiss close by asking "Would you like to kiss me?". Certain steps can also be
left out.
-CB
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