sorry if i started this thread in the wrong section.
i recently got a shit tests, i was talking to a party girl . are they really shit test, if so did i passed them well? or i coudve answered better?

HB: You can actually go meet hot chicks there and have fun (talking about markus schulz party that i didn't went to cuz my freinds coudn't afford it)
Me: i woudn't pay all that ammount of cash to just go there to jst meet chicks (300$), unless i meet a hot chick that would pay for me :p
HB: Oh okay, next time i'll go with you :p
Me: only if you pay
HB: hhhh, i'm not that stupid, i won't go with you then :p
Me: i'll find that hot chick that's gonna pay for me :p
HB: Okay, if she pays, the one after i'll pay
Me: i don't want to use girls you know, let's jst split it :p
HB: Awwww :p
....
6AM and still awake
Me: When will you go to sleep,I told you so many times not to follow me, it's no good for you :p
HB: you go sleep, it's no good for kids :p (she's 18 i'm 21)
Me: and how old are you? 50? :p
HB: i'm older then you, older! :p
Me: haha nice joke, your too young for me :p
HB: no actually i'm older ! (wtf she's not 18?)
Me: how old are you then?
HB: mmmmmmmm, 221 :p (not falling for my screenings)
Me: since yoyu love sponge bob and you still eat cornflakes at midnight, i would say you're 12 :p
HB: :'(
Me: oo almost forgot, you're a crying baby, hen you're 10 :p
HB: Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
Me: Jeez, you're screamming again! :/
HB: cuz you make fun of me, and tell me i'm a 10yrs old ;(
Me: if you continue screaming i'll have ti reduce it :p
HB: you're mean :p Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Me: --" , 8yo :p
HB: don't talk to me
Me: Okay, you know you look strong, but deep inside you're a sensible person (CR)
HB: i said dn't talk to me ;(
Me: and i said Okay :p
HB:
Me: you're cute when u make that face haha
HB: you're mean , don;t talk to me ;(
Me: hahaha < 3 (needy?)
HB: get lost, don't talk to me ;(
Me: i'm not in a mood to "get lost"
HB: i said don't talk to me and try to sweet talk me (Neediness was obvious!)
Me: Ah sweet talking usually works on girls like you. i give up :p
HB: you want talk to me? ;(
Me: we don't talk with each other
HB:
Me: will you always " " ? okay, i forgive you (trying to flip the frame)
HB: No, i didn't want to talk to you first, so i am the one that says "i forgive you" when i want to (she wants me to look for her forgiveness in order for her to talk to me! i'm not gonna be submissive)
Me: your buisness
HB: okay i forgive you (thank you MPUA for teaching me this stuff, i would usually look for her forgiveness)
Me: i was right about you, you're sensitive :p
HB: how did you knew that?
Me: 6th sens! or the 7th, i dnt remmember :p
....
Me: listen to this radio, there's a gr8 song playing right now *LINK*
HB: my phone can't open it
Me: no big deal
HB: , i'll open it when i connect from my laptop
Me: Okay
HB: ;(
(she's being immature, and i kinda convey that my BT is getting low and se is seeking my approval, i see that Not falling to her frame, not acting needy, and not falling to her shit test scores for me, and made her fall to my frame)

Hey SeductMe,

The first half prior to 6AM doesn't seem too bad. I think it was good you dropped in something about getting HBs to pay for you - good DLV - after 6AM seems to be a little shaky though.

My advice, firstly, try and go easy on using ":P" all the time. Using emoticons constantly can make your intentions pretty transparent. I generally only use them after a neg - it defuses the situation nicely and lets her know that you're only playing, which is what a neg is all about after all, a playful comment that demonstrates your high self-esteem.

Secondly, if she takes your negs seriously (which it seems she did) it highlights her insecurities. She's attention seeking and playing the victim, which immediately gets my warning bells going. These personality types generally only result in issues for both parties later on. If I'm after something casual, friendly or intimate I like to attract women with similarly high self-esteem and personal power regardless. It just minimises the chance of a shitstorm.

If, however, you're still keen, this is what I would have done differently:

“Me: if you continue screaming i'll have ti reduce it :p”
- I would have said something like, "ease up princess ", then stopped negging for a bit. Sends a message that she needs to lighten up (which she does – or at least stop attention seeking) and that you’re only playing.

"HB: don't talk to me Sad"
- From here I would have done a simple "Alright" response and left it. You don't want to play school yard silent SPAM games. It's a massive DLV and you're giving her your power if you let her walk all over you. Not good. At the end of the day, it’s her problem – she needs to harden up lol.

Also, I'm not sure how the time frame worked here, but I generally always wait a little before responding. You're a busy man with many important priorities; she doesn't get to the top that easy.

I do like your ending though. The “your business” line was great. She responded well too.

In reference to your initial question, is she shit testing you? I would argue not, she’s just whinging and you certainly haven’t ruined your chances.

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- MM

"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent."

Thank you for your helpful reply and pointing out conversational flaws, I knew that something wasn't right about it, and what i really felt is fear of messing it up. that's what led me to try out Cold reading when it didnt work i tried IOI, when it didn't worked i was like ah "the wiliness to leave!" IOD for IOD and that what i'm doing is actually trying to get her to talk to me again!
and this is the first time i apply "theories" on field and see them work. this is a huge Step for me.
Bye bye Needy me.
And for the target, She's a social butterfly having so many guys chasing her (mostly), and i made a goal to make her chase me, just a step further to PUA and a huge confidence builder for an AFC.
you were right, lots of insecurities! and playing the victim by saying she's sick when i'm not replying to her text.

HB: I wish i was a guy.
Me: Stop being immature, I like girls proud of being females.
HB: why would i be a girl, you decorate yourself by me? (ehhh?!)
Me: if you were a guy i wouldn't be talking to you.
HB: So i'll stay a girl for you

yea i met my objective, next time i'll have the Insecurity radar turned On. but i fear i have to continue gaming this HB, just for fun and game improvements.

I think you got shit test and flirting confuse.

she actually "flirt" with many needy guys. i had to stand out.
She is flirty and playfull. use guys to feed her ego.
Expl:
HB FB Status: When i hear your voice, i am full of joy < 3 :p (attention seeking)
AFC: Call me then! :p (attention giver)
HB: :/ always throwing yourself
AFC: :'(
HB: ok don't cry, who would i have beside you :p

so what i really thought are shit test are IOI's according to you. all what matters is did i responded well to those IOI's/Shit test?
what's the best way to respond to an HB's IOI's?

You did alright... be more willing to leave the conversation, you can always have another one later.

When I get lack of effort responses, a sad face or something, I either won't reply or just send "hahaha" (or longer or shorter depending on how Im feeling it )
Girls want to know if you're laughing at them, and they'll generally ask you. I give difficult, vague answers until they're invested in the conversation again.