Hi, I´m new here and this is my first post. I´ve been trying to integrate alot of the Game and I´m definitely feel it is helping me with girls and people in general.
I´m starting to get down openers more easily, still struggling somewhat to keep it going afterwards, but my question is:
How long should I stay with a girl I´ve been talking to in a bar (or anywhere)? Especially if I´ve met her early in the night. It´s a challenge to keep sarging anyone for hours and additionally you come off creepy if you do. I´ve tried going back to my friends (using time constraints) after a while, but what if the girl takes off before I am able to get her number? And what if the girl is alone? Won´t she take it as a rejection if I leave her with no one to talk to, after a while? But if I cling for too long I find that´s not good either (I am demonstrating low value because i have no one else who wants to talk to me. And also, yes, i do start running out of things to say, even if it is going well, sooner or later)
Can anyone advise?

You cannot put a time frame on it;depends on the vibe.

But you dont want to be clinging on to 1 particular girl the whole night.

Plus it depends on your intentions.

What I mostly do is chat up the target for a minute or so then leave.

No "have a good night,I'll be back shit".

I just roll off!

I owe her nothing since she's a stranger.

Then I'd bumped in her again a bit afterwards to continue game.

During the initial chat,you should've already established whether the girl is to leave soon or not.

If she'd just arrived,well you know tha she'a not leaving right now so feel free to go in and out of set.

If the girls alone,she will feel inadecuate that she's now standing alone since you left.

But the beauty in that is that you will be on her mind(depending on how decent your game is)after you'd FTC and bounced.

I do this all the time;it's a huge part of my club gaming.

The girl(if she's a lone wolf)will feel rejected.

But she will be hoping that you return.

And when you do return,she will be more engaging and int you,trying to make sure his time you dont leave her stranded again.

My main and only intention in bars and clubs was to SNL.

No # close attempts;strictly SNL.

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I've dubbed myself the king if club game since it's my greatest area of PU.

Checc out my blog post about me gaming a particular HB at a club years ago.

https://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com ... ly-bitchy/

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Thanks 1 but what is SNL?

SNL='s Same Night Lay.

You meet the girl tonight;you lay her tonight.

That should be the goal of clubs and bars;to bang the girl afterwards.

The goal should'nt be to # close unless you tried but failed.

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