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Okay guys this is probably the tipping point for me as a reason to sign up here!
So as this story goes;
I am about to upgrade my phone and I felt like a clearance of my contacts and whatnot was due. So, whilst going through my phone, I find that i had phoned this random number when drunk about 5 times between 1-2 in the morning a few weeks ago. I text the number and it turns out to be this HB who I actually know from my college, just not that well.
I knew that she had a friend who had practically stalked me when I was 16 (unfortunately she was NOT attractive!) a couple of years ago, who had always testified that the HB liked me too, so I started flirting with this girl. My game is basically natural at this point still, however I have gotten to know the basics through reading posts on the forum and obviously The Game haha!
Needless to say this girl was clearly using sarcasm as an ASD and was constantly shit-testing me with it too- saying stuff like "oh you got me I am crazy in love with you and want to propose to you but unfortunately I don't get back till Tuesday from Spain" after I had merely questioned why she had sent me 3 texts in half an hour without me responding [Q1 is it a good/bad thing to point out to HB an example like this where it seems like they might be hitting on you?].
Needless to say I realised that this girl probably likes me, due to the number of times that she is sarcastic about liking me and is just using this as a shit-test. Then as a neg I tell her "Haha you are so sarcastic! I bet you scare off guys who don't know that you are joking

". Hardly the most inflammatory neg! This was her response:
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Tbh, I swear I don't mean any offence to you but I just don't like people to think I'm easy or getthe wrong impression or something cos a certain Ginger at your college seems to be saying the opposite about me. And if you tell anyone I said any of that you die
How would you guys handle this now? Should I be wary of the LJBF zone if she feels that I could not hurt her with this sensitive information, or is this a sign of trust and rapport that I can build upon? Is sarcasm a common form of ASD/Bitch-test (obviously these things are different but this HB has used it for both)?
Thanks guys, I'm kinda new to this so any pointers or advice for anything would be greatly appreciated and taken on board! It's amazing how, armed with a little bit of knowledge the whole thing seems more and more just like a logical game, and I have found it a real confidence booster for the month or so before I signed ip with the knowledge especially of shut-tests, which I never knew how to handle before!
Remedi
Q1 : bad thing to be confrontational with women on the phone, don't call them out or react to anything they do
(explanation to text in bold) she qualified to you, after you set a frame that she likes you and you know it, she accepted your frame, but then she indicated (what you were calling ASD earlier was bitchsheild btw, a side effect of ASD but not ASD in its self) that she has ASD (your job to get this handled)
Q2: allways be wary of LJBF, but it is easy to stay out of, no interest, no escalation, = LJBF, too much escalation, too much interest = DISQUALIFICATION,
you should handle this like you should handle any girl who is attracted to you, start from the ground up, escalate the situation, and close,
she has allready jumped into your frame that she likes you, passively admitting it through qualification, you need to handle her ASD, by at some point during your interactions *set non judgemental frame*, *set frame that you are discreet*,
start as if you are in square one, assume she is attracted, begin qualifications, show interest, physically escalate, establish commonalities, make sure to cover the above 2 frames in your interaction