I met an HB10 on OKC and finally met up with her last night. We had been texting back and forth constantly for a couple of days. I played it slow for a while to distinguish myself from the pack, constantly having her qualify herself without even hinting at a meet-up, and it worked like a charm. On thursday night she texted begging me to meet up with her within the hour, but I told her I couldn't because I was at the gym (true story).

Because it might start to seem like I was scared to meet, and against my better judgment, I met her last night while she was out with like five girlfriends. I couldn't read her half the time...she would talk about how great of a cook she is and how great her rack is, but then she was go off with her friends and completely neglect me. At times we were holding hands a little and super close, and other times she froze me out to text another guy or take shots with the girls.

When she got a little too cold, I told her I was gonna get going, that I kind of liked her and was glad to find out she wasn't some crazy online stalker, but I said it was a bad idea to come to that since it was clearly girls' night and we both had social lives on the weekend. Again, she was confusing, first offering to pay for my cab fare and acting like I was some poor lost puppy super disappointed, and then she switched over to respecting it as my decision to meet because it was just due.

Before leaving, I got really close, and she says something like "You want to kiss me don't you? Well I don't make out in bars." I took that as my cue and pulled her into the other room and made out with her for two seconds before letting her go and walking out. Then, I followed with a text "you're trouble" and didn't respond to hers for the rest of the night.

No clue how I should go forward. I can't tell if she's really into me or testing me or what. And I can't tell how I should play this. PLEASE HELP.

Whenever she starts acting cold liek rejecting you, go open a set or do something.

She is used to guys taking that bull crap and she is trying to test you and see whether you are one of the pack. You need to show her that you are your own man.

Good call. Exactly why it's bad to meet up around a ton of her friends. Really limits options and is a big move to make her feel grounded and you not.

Glad I grabbed her for the k-close, left and didn't respond to the text after she was testing me so hard. I started back up texting this morning and it's pretty much back to how it'd been before the night. I guess I move on from here and next plan a meet-up alone.