On my first day of community college I went up to a cute girl sitting behind me and we chatted for 5 minutes. The next day we chatted for 10 min and I got her Facebook. The day after I got her #. I want to know how to make it so I am not only seen as a friend. Any advice? I'm terrible at flirting and escalation. I'm still trying to figure out how to do them both naturally.

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Use some flirtation lines at first such as:
"I'm finding it so hard to listen to you right now because I just can't stop looking at your lips. But we can't kiss because that would be so wrong"
Read up about flirtation and escalation techniques on the forum.

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A lot of it is in two parts: body language and taking initiative. First off, if you are acting overly shy, nervous, or timid; she will not see you in a sexual way because that a non-sexual way of acting. Strong pressence, direct eye contact, calm and collected attitudes, kino, looking at her in a sexual way as opposed to a friendly way (she will notice); these are sexual ways of acting. This is the non-verbal way she will realize you are interested in more than a friendship.
Then there is the "taking initiative" aspect. She's not going to do all the work for you, so you have to take initiative and set things in motion. Good job with getting her number, but you should've just taken the initiative at that moment and asked her out on a date as well. The worst she could've done is say "no", and then you would have just moved on and tried with a different girl, no big deal. But if you don't ask, you can't get a "yes". So take initiative and take risks. Life is all about risks, and if you want to play it safe, you are going to end up exactly where you are now.

the guys above me gave some good advice, but maybe not the best.
yes you have to escalate and yes you have to be more sexyal, but build it up.
want to know how? you do what you want. would you like to smell here hair? just do it and dont make a big deal about it. your mind set with that must be: its not a big deal.
and for the flirting: start the talking escalation exactly the same as your kino escalation. so when you touch here more, say more sexy/flirty stuf. in a natural way ofcourse. if you dont do this, you wil be stuck in the "friend" zone.
do stuf with here, maybe not dates but do something interesting with here. like sneak out of your houses together at night to meet someweare nice. (thats a great thing btw). so i hope i got to help you with this.

DS

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