So, I'm married, not getting divorced anytime soon---for reasons that have nothing to do with my relationship with my wife (it sucks!) . And I'm ready to play.

But clearly I have this huge handicap. I have to be able to either

(1) weed out the chicks who would never get involved with married guy (probably impossible but I"m open to suggestions)
(2) Learn some techniques to bypass their married-man-reluctance, or
(3) Lie... at least until I get her panties off.

I'm considering (3) but really, I'm not a good liar. For me game isn't so much about being devious and insincere, it's about channeling my sincere desire for a woman into productive behavior on my part. Besides..is lying necessary. Seems like tons of people have affairs. But in my experience I've found the "but you're married" thing to be a brick wall.

Any thoughts on this?

You will find zillions of women who will f-close you...as lon as they have enough plausible deniability built up they will do anything. Seems harsh doesn't it? But my friend is married (married early twenties) - he has no inclination to cheat but FUCK ME does he get a fuckload of attention! Soooooooooooooo many women have tried to 'break' him or get him to cheat its untrue - must be some kind of jealous reaction or form of social proof.

In a nutshell - they dont have to know you are married, but even if they do, you will still get some.

I take it you are just looking for some fool's mate game, one night stands etc? You'd have to be very good to pull of multiple LTRS AND hide it from your wife.

Or just get a divorce if it sucks so bad.