Any ideas on best practices for transitioning girls from OKC to put them in the best possible mood before the in-person meet up. My first online date ended with a f-close of an HB7.5 about 24hrs after the initial meet up, but I've been on a couple since then without the same luck.

Anyone have a routine of moving from messaging to email/phone/text to actual meet up that gets them already attracted and comfortable? I just got back from one with an HB8, and while the online and phone banter went really smooth, I feel like there were a lot of walls up trying to block escalation. Maybe my game was off tonight, but I feel like this should be a pretty common problem with some simple solutions.

Also, the date ended with a hug after I walked her to the subway (it would be awkward to do more, so maybe it really was my fault for holding back on the kino). I hit her back with a text " : ) " a few hours later. She responded pretty quickly with the exact same thing. I could REALLY use some advice on what to do from here.

Thanks!