I'm 24, girl is 18 ( does this matter? )
Met her at a club she said he had to go after we danced a little, talked a little and she asked me for my number. Gave it to her, gave her a hug and kiss on the cheek and then she left.

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I plan to text her tomorrow and be like " so what cool activities did you and your friend do? " then talk a lil and be like " oh im cooking right now blah blah " then talk about then and then ill say what are your plans this weekend and ill say im busy but i might go to the club again blah blah and then next week try to set up a date

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i like your playfulness and she's definitely feeding off it

She's definitely in to you as she's asking you questions so she wants a response.

My advice:

1) Don't add her on facebook. All mystery about you will evaporate (it may be too late at this point but that's my advice) cos suddenly she can see all the dumb shit you do with your mates, what your ex's look like, you being drunk etc. you wanna remain at a distance, like she can't have you...

2) 100% ask her what she's doing at the weekend and then tell her you're busy. That will reel her in and knock her back. if she says "I don't really have plans" or "meant to be doing X but not sure" that's an IOI as she's leaving an opening for you to suggest something. When you tell her you have plans she will be panicking that you're not that in to her.

3) By suggesting something later in the week you're pulling her right back in. Don';t leave it up to her though. Tell her what day and a time then make a plan. Don't spend loads of money or anything but have a firm idea and stick to it. i.e when she turns up you tell her "rigfht, we're going ice-skating or the zoo or whatever" it will instantly indicate you are an alpha and that you make plans and control situations. If you ask her what she wants to do you are instanly giving her the power and look indecisive.

If the date has gone well at the end ask what she's doing in say 4 / 5 days time and be like "me and a few mates are going to the cinema, come along if you like" that way it's an open invite and you've got her to commit straight away. bingo!

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should I make bring up animals and then ask her to go to the zoo? just us 2? should i tell her to bring a friend and ill bring mine and then go from there or?

avoid bringing a friend each as then your mates end up on an enforced double date and that could be really really awkward if they dont like eachother and will ruin the interaction with you 2 as her mate could end up trying to cock block etc.

Nah, don't even bring up animals. Just say to her, so what are your plans this week, did you fancy doing something? if she says "yes" say "great, Saturday 2nd, I'll pick you up at 1pm, wear jeans and comfortable shoes" don't tell her what you're doing. If she asks keep it secret. that way you'll be on her mind for the entire week as she'll be trying to guess what you're doing, so you'll have her mind anchored on you.
If it's gone well after the zoo, suggest going somewhere else - take her for a milkshake or an ice-cream - don't ask her "would you like to" just tell her that's what you're doing. it's not expensive but you can bet she'll be telling all her mates about it on monday. Then you're getting social approval from her friends and you'll have done 2 locations in 1 day, thus speeding up the process as she'll feel much more bonded with you.

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I also like your textgame there. Really humorous and she's digging it. Personally, I've come off using too many smilies and haha's (and especially x's) in when I text or chat. I think it comes across as less confident

If you tell her to meet you somewhere and then say "Right, let's go to the zoo" or "I decided we should go to the zoo" that comes across as even more alpha because you just decide without giving reasons. I'd do something like that.

Btw, Example, nice comment.

Example's new to this forum, as am I and YoungMan. You may not trust us then, but I'll still say Example has some great points.

I love the part about not adding her on facebook. After a first-date lay with one of the most beautiful girls I've ever been with, I let her add me, from my computer in my apartment, the next morning. It was one of many mistakes I made that lead to no date two. If you get to know her more before adding her, you'll know if you should edit your profile here or there, and even if you don't she'll be more likely to see good in your profile, and less likely to see bad. (If you like her at all, editing here and there is smart, because girls similar to her think similar to her.)

I also love the not-telling-her-what-the-plan-is-so-she-thinks-about-it-all-week bit. Very strong. But to do this well you have to be confident. She'll have built up hope and expectations, and if you don't meet those expectations you have to remain cool and control the frame. You can't let a bored girl turn you into a sheep. It should make it easier to know that if she doesn't like what you do, she's not for you.

This raises a general question about texts though. Do you guys prefer adopting dumb-girl-text-language (abbreviations, no caps, tons of words, multiple exclamation points and question marks, etc) to build rapport, or do you keep it smart? I keep it smart ...

Oh right -- you asked us to rate your text game. I say if you want to build rapport with this girl, you're doing well. She sounds pretty ditzy, but maybe that's your type.