I just dont know where to post this, so feel free to move.
I was trying to improve my inner game so i joined a gym like 4 months ago.
Im kind of shy. So to improve that i was speaking (still am) to strangers like 1 or 2 per day and maintaining a 2 minute conversation.
So i have met like all the girls in the gym.
1 month ago, this girl starts coming for boxing lessons, she is a HB8(my target).
I was dying to open her but my AA took me over.
Her trainer (i guy i met there) saw my interest and he introduced me to her like 1 week later.
The open went smooth, I even walked away when she showed me her third IOI.
I knew i could talk to her some other day.
the Day after the open, i went a talked to her again. She was using a machine i dont use. I used the machine to her side. I have to admit, i couldnt control the situation, she opened me and was talking like 200Miles/hr asking me all my details and personal stuff.
She was telling me, she even knew my whole rutine(workout). I was like damn! wtf, how the hell can i outmaneuver this BS. I wasnt at ease, i mean i just saw her face and she is gorgeous. I gain conscience of my Body language and improved it. When her machine stopped because she finished, she was trying to speak to me again, restarting the machine so i took control of things and said "really nice talking to you i really need to go" and left.
2 days passed and she didnt went to the gym.
in those 2 days another girl(second girl), this one a HB9, is married and with 3 small children, goes to me,introduces herself to me and starts a like a pseudoroutine. She looks better than my target.
the next day the same shit.
the third day my target comes to the gym, i go and talk to her, tryng to kino this time. All went really well. I had to go to work.
Afterwards the second girl tells me "i saw you!" like mad.

the fourth and final day. Im training like usual and the second girl goes to my side and starts hitting on me, she even asked me "Are you gay?"
im like WTF, "of course not!"
meanwhile my targets comes to her boxing lesson and the second girl says "here comes your friend " and puts a sarcastic face.
She (the second girl) then goes to take a the boxing lesson, something she doesnt even do.
I go to my target, trying to talk to her but she is speaking with another woman- (something i just dont know how to deal with)and i cant speak to her the other women just doenst shut up, im like standing there like a F-stool, so i decide to put myself against a wall trying to appear like they are hitting on me.
First the boxing trainer comes and cockblocks me then the second girl comes and starts talking to the lady who is talking to my target and i feel the tension between the 2 of them.(the target and the second girl)
suddenly i look to the whole gym and i see alot of the girls giggling watching the whole scene.
I mean I just had to leave before the situation became awkward. I just felt like a total failure.
The questions:

1- How to Disarm the obstacles? (the lady she is talking to and the boxing trainer)
2.- How to use the second girl to my advantage?(I just dont want to get in a tough spot with a married girl!)
3.- How to isolate my target?
4.- How to neg my target? (she is a swimsuit designer)
5.- How can i improve the situation with my target?

Any advice is appreciated.
I know is really long
LD

Game them both.

The married HB is hitting on you. No harm in flirting back. Help out with a routine (I find that assisting in sit-ups, ab works, pushups while feet are balanced on a ball, etc. are all excellent ways to build to a natural kino in the gym). Find out more about both of them. Use them as pivots so that you are able to start even more conversations around the gym. Become known as the "mayor" of the place.

I know some have issues with married women, but if she is working out and giving you obvious IOI's, I'd say go for it. Nothing, I repeat, nothing more wild between the sheets than a sexually neglected married HB in her prime.

You need to find ways to get these women out of the gym - perhaps an offer to grab a smoothie together at (insert your favorite, non gym location here) after your workouts, or tell them to show you how to make their favorite after workout snack. Anything that moves the location from the gym, to a quieter, more intimate location. From there, it is up to you to kino until you get her begging you to take her. You are in a good situation (I know it doesn't feel like that right now). Not one, but two women are hitting on you and they each want a piece of your meat. You are the prize, and don't let them forget that - it will drive them wild.

And if you do go for the married woman, make sure you have some flexibility in your daytime schedule - after all, that is when most married women are able to partake in extracurricular activities.

Good luck ... and looking forward to you posting back with the Lay Report ...

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Hey man I'v got a similair situation, two older woman both married have been talking to me at the gyn, I was introduced to one of their brother in laws and he was a real dick saying she had a competition coming up and to let her work out. Both are married the other woman i see constantly almost every day we work out I have not done anything more than give her a hug. She came over one day because i helped her get pot, she smoked a small amount with me and left. I just feel like a sleezy person trying to go in for a kiss or make the situation uncomfortable, there has to be a way i can use my words for everything to happen the way i would like it too. I have both womans numbers but the woman i work out with everyday texts me back and is very direct with me. This is part of the reason i would need to do this in a some what respectful manner.

I generally try to feel a woman out by asking if she is adventurous, and then slip into the conversation that adults should be able to do what they want and not be limited by what society expects them to do. This generally gets them to open up and if their responses are positive, you can be pretty sure that they are DTF.

As for teh kiss, I've found that unless you are a position / location to proceed, that it can backfire if you kiss and then have to stop. I kino like crazy under the table when sitting together (and am damn good at it too). If you are looking for a safe way to kino in public, you can always thumb-wrestle (I know it sounds silly, and it is, but as a professional in my 40's girls appreciate a man who can be silly). This gets you to holding each other's hands in an innocuous way in public, which then allows you to step up your kino efforts.

If the one woman is direct and already DTF - tell her to meet you at a coffee shop near your house or her's after a workout, get her worked up, and then LEAD her back to the location (don't ask her if she wants to go, just say "let's go to my place, I want to show you ________________" get up, and go to your car. She will follow you, and it will happen if you've calibrated correctly.

Go forth and close and report back with the lay ...

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i think youre going overboard with the walking away and the disinterest. thats probably why the second girl asked if you were gay

girls like guys who like girls, dont be afraid to show that at times.

simple answer:

the first girl, set up a day 2 and number close. simple

she wanted to talk toy ou by the machine, you could have negged her and set up a day 2 by saying it would be easier to talk over a cup of coffee instead of at 200 mph

this are solid ioi's dude, dont be afraid to show her some ioi's too, but go aling the push-pull side and flirt with her

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