I've been talking to this girl online for about a week now.
Got loads of attraction, humor plus shared deep conversations.

I have a house in london which i have until the end of this month (29th June)
My permanant address is in stoke-on-trent
I'll be living in hampshire from the start of july
She lives in bournemouth

The question is how to transition the whole interaction so we can actually meet up. As you can see there's a logistics problem.

Let me know if it would be helpful for me to include the entire facebook message history between us.

What style of game do you use? That's the most important detail to include here. I'm not asking direct/indirect or whatever; are you doing something MM-based or NLP-based?

If you're doing MM, I can't help you.

You've already got some rapport, you've got her attracted (but you don't have it anchored), and she's open to letting you direct her thoughts (that's deep conversation).
Here's what I'd do: mention the time constraint in passing, when it's appropriate, and lead it to a theme of missed opportunities and how you wish you could have that moment back and have gone for it instead. Can you imagine taking an opportunity back like that, and how much better you'd feel knowing that it didn't pass you by? It's just like what I read in this book the other week, it said "if you were to remember what it feels like to regret missing your only chance to do something, if you were given a new opportunity, something or someone absolutely amazing that can take you in a completely new direction, would you feel it growing inside you that you have to do something? With me, it can grow and grow until it's unbearable and you just have to jump on the chance while it's still there! Before it's gone and all you're left with is regret. Anyway, have you seen any movies lately?

Figure out where to do the self-points and cock-points for shits and giggles

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Unfortunately it is a lot like MM, but i can still use what you said.

My biggest problem, i should have made it clearer, is finding an excuse or a reason for her to leave her city to come and visit me. Maybe I should suggest going on a day trip around london, going to a london nightclub, watching a movie or maybe just straight up come to my house and chill avec moi.

According to style: it's better to bring her to your world, in my case london, than to go into hers
Style also says: if you stay at one stage for too long and don't move forwards she'll lose interest.

Hmmm... just had an idea right now, how about; neg her about living in bournemouth, boast about how amazing london is, then we'll arrange to meet up and do something fun in central london like visit a museum or even go to camden town market (that place is magical) and have some chinese on those cool bike seat things (if you havent already seen then, check them out asap).


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(if anyone has never been to camden, it's a massive market place, a bit like a shopping center except its outdoors and really cool with a mod feel)

(if you don't know what a mod is, they were around in england in the 60s, going off topic...)

I'm getting a massive influx of ideas right now, thinking a lot faster than I can type.

father's day is in 6 days so that will give us the perfect excuse to go to camden asap. She might have been on movie dates, dinner dates etc. but i bet she ain't never been on a market date.

I'm actually thinking that the best place or activity for a date is something she's never done before that way you'll get a deeper connection. Plus everytime she recalls the first time she did it, she'll think of you. I think in NLP that's called anchoring, something like building emotional relationships in her mind?

Gentlemen, my apologies the length of this post but i'll need to refer back to this in the morning.