Met her on Wednesday she is a friend of a friend. I met my friends in a party an there she was.

later that night, me two of my friends (a couple) and her went for a drink, I acted all desinterested, negged her etc. my friends decided to leave so I bounced her to new location for a drink. I dhv with stories, made her laugh. there was kino of my side but not much IOIs. so I didnt go for the kiss until we said good bye. I told her "now ill give you the reward i told you before, close your eyes and open your hand" Then I pecked her once, got the phone number, and we made out little bit more before I left.

We went out on 2 dates after that one on friday for drinks, and on sunday to the beach.

The problem is that everytime I kiss her she lets me, but she doesnt kiss back, light kino is ok, and lets me held her hand but she is all stiff, she doesnt squeezes back.

She agreees with everything I say, she is a nice girl, and very polite, but Although she agrees there are no IOI´s

WHAT SHE SAID TO ME:

So we had "the talk" I asked her " am I making you fill uncomfortable?" and she starts telling me that she like to be with me, and its very fun to be around me, but.... (she cant say the but), Then she says that she has still feelings for his ex who is not in the picture anymore, she is not looking for a relationship cuz her life is not stable, she wants to live abroad, and she is not in love with me.

She is confused because she doesnt know why she is with me, and feels bad cuz is wasting my time.

She never said: "lets be just friends" just the "I like you but..."

WHAT I TOLD HER:

I know this has moved too fast (I met her 5 days ago), but I really like you, and of course you are not in love with me, but if you have let this come this far is because there is something between us, and it would be a shame to let it die now.

I dont want to end it like this and I think we should give it an opportunity to see where it goes.


Then she said: "ill will think about it" but I felt more like "this is over"

I know I made a lot of mistakes, show interest to quick, forced kino (kisses, and hands holding) and not punishing kino rejection.

but I want to know if there is still a chance, what I want is to make her my short term GF.

Should I give her time to "think", be persistent, or call her to say " take it or leave it now!"