I hear a lot of stories where people neg themselves out of a chance.

I want to share that negs are only apart of the game. When I started, I admit that I was terrible at. I was giving either way to many. It felt cool to have hot girls think they couldn't have me. But it wasn't getting me in their pants. Also I just thought they were to serious put a girl down or hurt her feelings. - NOT TRUE.

The point of a neg is to simply show your not impressed by her. That she has to work for your approval. If she already thinks your hotter then her, don't neg her. If Brad Pitt came into a bar and negged a HB9, she would probably just give up because he is so far above her status.

Negs to avoid: your ugly and your fat.

I have had SNL without giving a single neg. But I never had a SNL when all I did was neg.


*once shes giving you serious IOIs, tone down the negs. If shes into you and telling you she wants to f*ck, stop with the negs.

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I stumbled across a huge problem. With what do you replace negs if the girl doesn't understand them? It's not like the negs are complicated or hard to understand, just that she doesn't seem to get the meaning of them.

I can't come up with a good example, but is she too "dumb" to understand? lol

The thing with mets is its about delivery, if to say it to be mean it doesnt work. Kind of like a back handed compliment. It's no totally mean, but your not impressed by her.

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The thing with mets is its about delivery, if to say it to be mean it doesnt work. Kind of like a back handed compliment. It's no totally mean, but your not impressed by her.

Some thing like that might, "Aw your so cute" like if she didn't get a joke.

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