Hey everyone,

I go the same coffee shop every day for the last 1 1/2yr. I have great rapport with all the staff. A little over a month ago a new (very cute) chick was hired. I was attracted but didn't plan on making a move. But then she started in with what I thought were IOIs.

Ex:

If I talk to another FEMALE employee, she will make her presence known by speaking or standing closer to the conversation.

I own a business and for marketing I have temporary tatts for kids. I offered her one and she extended her arm very happy for me to put it on her. (I've had many women give bitter/ugly reactions to this). I use the tats to test a womens comfort. It works very well for me.

She saw 1 of my real tats on my arm and started touching it. Seemed to me she just wanted to touch me but maybe I am wrong...

Lots of hair play(I dont read into that much though), lots of long eye contact, etc etc...some other stuff in common yada yada

Here's the situation:

I go in yesterday and she's there. I have tickets to a sporting event coming up. She says,"That's so cool!"

So I said, "Well let's go."

She says, "I don't know" with body language that told me she was nervous/ not comfortable enough. I figured F it. So when I was about to leave, I said, "I bet if it were baseball you'd be begging to go and then cheerful with a huge smile she goes, "HELL YEAH!"

So now what? I got the "Nice way of saying NO for what I invited her to......and an EXCITED HELL YEAH had it been BASEBALL." So my sport of choice was blew it. The way I see it, doesn't matter what you're doing. If a chick wants you she will do whatever you're doing. I just think I didn't build as much comfort as I thought.

Thoughts/opinions? Should I invite one of her female co-workers?

Well what was the sporting event? Also, I find it 'weird' gaming hired hands. Not that is super difficult, its just hard to get them alone and have a real conversation. I think that bringing another hb7.5-10 to get coffee with you there and acknowledging, yet dismissing the girl you want. Create some jealousy plot lines n maybe give her a little bit of a freeze. Create more report then go again, this time make it something more casual. She may feel a bit intimidated going to a big sporting event with a cute guy who comes to her work everyday. What if she looks like an asshole then has to see you all the time, or vice versa. Too bad she works at a coffee shop or u could invite her to grab coffee. After she's more comfortable, maybe invite her to grab a drink. Just ideas...but I would definitely bring hb's there n keep them going nuts...the girl will see it and feel like fuck I blew my chance...then u should be able to snatch her.