So there's this girl I had always kinda liked/flirted with in high school who I hadn't talked to in over a year. In April, about a month before school ends, she texts me again out of the blue and starts to add in how she is now single etc.

For the rest of the college year until summer I'd text/IM her once every week or so until May when we were both home and we met up at the mall. I did a little bit of flirting etc but she said how she was going to be spending most of the summer in Baltimore starting in a few days. (I live in NJ).

This whole time she had told me how she really wanted me to visit her in Baltimore for a weekend etc. and I told her she could come spend a weekend with me in NYC. She seemed really excited by this and texted me the next day saying how serious she was about it etc.

Later on, a day before she leaves, she texts me when I am absolutely hammered out of my mind etc wanting to say goodbye. She was pretty flirty this whole time but I was plastered and ended up saying I was with another "girlfriend" that night.

The next day she texted me and was pretending to be all upset I had been with a girl instead of her and how she didn't get to say goodbye. At this point, shes in Baltimore.

Now I think everythings going pretty well, Ill meet her in the city for a weekend, hopefully bang her etc.

A few days ago I get a text from her asking if she could bring a guy friend to the city when she comes. I told her no and she quickly tried to veer the conversation from the topic but I was a little less talkative and then excused myself after a few texts to go to the gym.

Was this shit test or a sign that the girl doesn't like me and wanted to be sure it wasn't too flirty? What would be a good way to make sure I don't waste my time with this chick in the city if she isn't even into me, or to increase the likelihood that I get with her? I planned on taking her out to eat, (she pays her half), and then taking her to a really nice club with some friends of mine who live in the city. Then we were gonna crash at an apartment one night and hotel the next, although I hadn't told her the specific accommodations.

Firstly, she's very into you.

Why?

1. She texts you out of the blue, meaning she was thinking about you.
2. She kept dropping hints she was single.
3. She not only accepted your invitation for her to visit you (IOI) but expressed excitement about it (even better IOI)
4. She got upset when you said you were with a girl.

And drunk or not, you told her you were with another girl, and she got upset... so now she's trying to make you jealous by casually asking to bring a guy friend, and it seems she succeeded.

I don't think it was a shit test... it was just her trying to "get even" with you for making her jealous... probably because saying something like that after it's clearly been going so well between you two seems a little odd, and left her confused, maybe even hurt. Why did you tell her you were with another girl?

My advice is no more games, there's no need to make her jealous. She's already very attracted to you. When you talk to her next, be a little flirty to establish you're still into her and just pretend as if this speed bump never happened. If she asks about your "girl friend," say that you just meant a friend who was a female.

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Thanks and I hope so -

Should I initiate next or wait until she does, and if the former is best, how soon?

Also, was it right for me to act kind of pissed or should I have been jovial about the matter? Just for future reference.

I appreciate the input!