We have spoke for nearly three months. Everything was going fine but about a month back she said she didn't want a boyfriend but she still would ride with me to work and talk dirty/flirt but she calls me less. The look in her eyes when we are together is warm, sexy and she laughs at everything. She don't kiss no more though. WTF

She started telling me she is single and lots of guys talk to her on Facebook and that she enjoys reading and replying to the messages. When I spoke to her on friday she was talking to me but typing away to guys on the net and laughing and stuff. This was after a few days of talking dirty to me and txting me.

called her up yesterday and she got pissed off that I woke her up and said to me when she was with a friend she hooked me up with a girl(we work at a bar) and was laughing.

I said, "you wouldn't do that...you know that we have attraction" she went quiet then laughed going "some girls going to come up to you haha" I was like "so thats how you want it, alright then gina" and she goes "alright then Jay"

I asked her if she got this dirty txt I sent and she was like meh "yeeeah I got it. When I said cya babe to her she was like take care. She never does that, she was very cold I felt really stupid.

Spoke again today.....now this is why I seem confused.

I mentioned meeting sometime tommorow and she said she would either do something early or late in the evening. She had a few glasses of wine though, and something was brought up, to which I said "So I'm like family" and she goes "Do you want to be in the family?" I said "Hmm you never know..." and she went "What you mean you never know!" in a girly voice. What the hellll

She then asked me "How have you been, anything NEW?" I told her I was working all weekend and chilled out today so no. What's going on? I want to be with her, in a relationship, she LJBF me a month back, says often she isn't into a relationship then acts like this. How do I let her know I do want a relationship, without sounding AFC?

Hey there!

To me it definately sounds that shes in to you. I think you played your cards wrong though and now it looks like your more of a tail to her than something that she onces thought were interesting and mysterious.

Im not an expert but i think that should have given her more of an ultimatum, let her take part of your interesting life and character but not without giving anything back. You let her tag along for so long that you've almost entered the friendly circle. And you need to cut her off. Dont be so needy man. You have something to offer her, if she doesnt want it fuck her you. The reason she tells you about theese guys shes been chatting with online is to see your reaction.

Slowly cut off some of the things she uses you for and i promise you that she will wonder what is going on. Make plans for your weekend, go out with a couple of dudes and have a good time, and if she texts you during the weekend dont answer. When you get back to work together she will point that out.

Tell her about your amazing weekend, how much fun you've had with a lot of energi, body language at this point is very important. Show her that you can live without her and have a good time and that she is not the only thing on your mind even though she might be. I can guarantee you if the information you've given me is correct that she will respond positively to that!

Good luck man!

Thanks.

She is just so confusing. There is this guy who keeps flirting with her putting a couple of kisses and she does the same, then I found a picture from last week of them two hugging, and her friend must of took the snap from her car. It's in the mobile uploads section on Facebook and no other guy friends are in that folder!!!!!