Let's talk a little bit about indicators of interest and how to know if a woman likes you. Indicators of interest (IOI's) are subtle body language cues that a woman does subconciously.

Many guys have trouble recognising IOI's from the girls they approach on the street, girls they are out on dates with, "girlfriends" and women they have just met. Many men expect that a girl will express her interest in a man verbally, just like they do in the movies! Now, girls are NOT like that. If they are attracted to you they will subcommunicate it to you non-verbally and expect you to be socially aware enough to pick-up on it.

Now, don't worry if this all seems a bit confusing - I am here to help you..

Often, women are not even aware of the non-verbal signals they are sending early on in the interaction. These early signals help you find out, how to know if a woman likes you and thus changing the entire outcome of the interaction. So, when you recognise these signals from a girl - you can be pretty sure that they are attracted to you.

Here are the five most common signals that tell you how to know if a woman likes you:

1. When a girl is interested in you, she is going to ask you questions in order to get to know you better and eventually get a good vibe going - for example, How old are you?, Where are you from?, What's your name?
2. If a woman likes you she is going to lean towards you so she can be closer to you and she will find reasons to touch you. It may just be an accidental bump or she may put a hand on your shoulder or arm.
3. In general, when a woman plays with her hair it means she is interested.
4. Mantaining strong eye contact is a way of finding out how to know if a woman likes you.
5. When a girl introduces you to her friends. Girls care a lot about what their friends think of them and the men they choose. She will only introduce you to them if she likes you.


Picking up on these small cues is an art. With time and experience you will begin to recognise these things naturally and find out how to know if a woman likes you.

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It's a nice story. I do doubt on some things you say here.

I just have a new job as a waiter. I work most of the time with a girl who has a BF. When I start matching it with this girl it isn't all true.

I mean when a girl is interested in you doesn't always mean she likes you for more than just a friend..

The girl I work with asks me a lot of questions. She also gives much compliments. And the kino signals you tell here (putting hand on shoulder or arm) are also true. Also other kino. And we do have good eye contact going. She did mention lately I am lucky to be single.. Didn't really asked further onto that. Did tell how I thought about being single what is the advantage and what when being taken.

I think you need to add some more things to this

Dude, it sounds like this girl likes you. BUT because you are so trapped in your f@@king mind about how her having a boyfriend will reduce your chances of closing her - your can't accept that these simple signals are indicators of interest..

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I have been changing my game a lot lately..

The above is true but you will also feel that raw sexual tension between yourself and the girl through eye contact and this amazing sexual energy.

I'll be posting some videos soon to let you know what I mean - keep an eye on the video section!

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I second thedirectgame...@solution, no offense but your views about IOIs make you look more like problem than soln to me. bottomline yr coworker wants your cock!

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I don't care if a woman likes me because women have sex with guys they don't like all the time.

When I asked my gf when she started actually liking me, she told me that it was a time after we had sex.

I've also been with girls who pretty much hated me.

Trying to get girls to "like" you is generally useless ego stroking bullshit. You don't need to get a girl to like you to seduce her into bed.

I think instead of looking for IOIs, it's best to just escalate the interaction. For example: if you're at at a club and it's loud, ask the girl to go somewhere a little more quiet. Then when you're somewhere a little more quiet, ask her to dance with you. Then when you're dancing try grabbing her hands and then letting go every now and then.

If the girl follows your lead and does not object to your advances, then it's pretty much a sure sign that she likes you or is at least a bit interested.

IOI's are sometimes hit or miss and every girl is different so there is no sure formula for judging IOIs. And sometimes, by the time you pick up on an IOI, the moment has already fled and you're stuck beating yourself up for being too late.

This is a great post on how to tell if a girl likes you:
http://www.effectiveattraction.com/blog ... likes-you/

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Girl thinks I'm hot and is fishing for compliments.
Thoughts?

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To the waiter dude...if she keeps giving u ioi's she keeps giving u ioi's. Don't take yourself out of the game, girls cheat constantly. Also, playing with the ear n wrist picking are more ioi's to look for.

The general rule is indeed the hair-thing. + nervous hands (playing with jewelry) + hand in neck.

Universal signs.

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