So a few buddies and I went out to the club this past weekend. We're dancing with the ladies, doin our dealio and I go outside to get a breather. I talk to this chick and when go inside to dance. We go and dance and shes grindin on me and gets me to run my hands on her tits and all that stuff. We end of makin out and I cut it short cause I have to go. I wait a couple days and text her.

I say lets meetup friday, she agrees

comes around to friday and this is how the texting goes

me: "i dunno what would you be interested in"
her: "haha drinking maybe. Or a movie with people"
me: "it's entirely up to you"
her: "you choose"
me: "dun matter to me brah
her: " well i dont wanna go to my house"
me: "so what choices does that leave us?"
her: "Kay well."

Now at this point shit hits the fan and I was just getting tired of talking to her

her: "Just kinda saying have an idea when you wanna hang out so it doesn't always turn out like this..haha"
me: "I like to pick something both people have fun with"
her: "Well sitting texting what are we gonna do Doesn't sound fun for anyone."

I ended up going to a party and hooking up with another chick

me about 4 hours later: "Dun worry I had other fun"
her: I clearly dont worry about you. I was just saying. Regardless I am out anyways."
me: "LOL pheuw"

Now, questions is. If I try to game this chick what the hell can I say after that ordeal? Or should I just drop the biz and delete her from my celli? What should I have done differently, and what do I do now?

- Sling

Let me ask you something, did you even read anything on this forum ? Or did you always posted and expected for answers ? Have you heard of the concept of leading ? And even before I heard of that, when i wanted to meet a girl I didn't exchange 10 replies on nothing.
Why the fuck is it important WHERE you meet ? Who cares "where" ? You didn't expect her to call you at her house instantly ?

Couldn't agree more...

you need to make the decision! infact she made it really easy, drinking or a movie... all you had to do was pick one...



me about 4 hours later: "Dun worry I had other fun"
her: I clearly dont worry about you. I was just saying. Regardless I am out anyways."
me: "LOL pheuw"


Gotta say that i am not a huge fan of this exchange either...
apart from the way you opened, her 'i am out anyways' was easily followed up with an 'oh, what did you decide to do in the end'...



the fact that she replies and the way that she replies is clear that she is interested but is not interested in messing around... I reckon you have one more chance, but you need to be a man and make your mind up (make both of your minds up!)

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You need to be slapped for each of those texts.

If she's still interested then you're lucky.

When she next tells you she is free, tell her to meet you or that you'll pick her up and take her somewhere. Anywhere is better than putting your penis in the guillotine like you just did.

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Thankyou for the replies

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Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

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