I thought this would be the appropriate place to put this.

Well I've known this one chick for about a year now through my ex girlfriend. After my gf and I broke up we started talking more often and she kinda admitted that she always liked me even when I was with my girlfriend. We hung out like twice after that then stopped talking for a while cause she got grounded.

Now she's talking to me again and I want to try to make sure that I don't most this up because she is at least a HB8.

She said that she likes bad boys. What I want to know is how exactly to accommodate this request. She's doesn't seem like the kind of girl all for sweet talk and stuff and I don't want to over do the 'bad' act.

So what advice can anyone give me about my situation? How do I keep her interested?

By bad boy, she probably means more of an Alpha type. She wants to be led. She wants you to take the lead and make things happen. She doesn't want a shy guy who worries about making a move or getting physical with her. She wants someone who knows what he's doing and knows how to seduce her, and isn't scared or intimidated to do so. Basically she wants a man who knows what he's doing and then does it, not a boy who is trying to figure it out, or a man-boy who is too scared to make a move. That's why women like bad boys, cause they aren't ashamed of their sexuality and they aren't scared to take risks.

Let me also point out "accommodate the request"

That is not the right mindset, a "bad boy" does not accommodate to requests.

You make a good point. A bad boy does not focus upon the woman's needs, but rather his own. He has a clear idea of who he is and what he wants, and the woman must fit into that if she wants to be with him. He doesn't change or adapt for women, but rather they must adapt to him. Of course ideally this should be the mindset of all puas.

Although we are changing to be better than women, we are really doing it for ourselves and our own well being. And we mustn't change our live drastically for any particular women. Obviously in long term relationships there is change and compromise, but there is equality in that sense, where both people are change and meeting in the middle.

The problem with a lot of guys is that they don't know who they are or what they want. So they inevitably accept whatever girl comes along and then build their lives around her in such a way that they have no unique identity left. A Man must know himself and the world he has created for himself, so that he goes up to women with a sense of identity and a wealth of individuality and uniqueness behind him. Otherwise, he's just another set of pickup lines with no substance behind him.

"okay i'm going to test you. close your eyes." kiss. done.

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Ok using the hoop theory, if she throw you hoops DO NOT JUM THEM! Instead throw her a new hoop to control the frame ie: if she says 'I like bad boys' do not say some lame shit like 'theres a bad side to me youve never seen'. with a HB8 you should be fine throwing a neg hoop like 'hey, you could at least make an effort for me, you havnt neven brushed your hair etc.'

A few tips I got about the bad boy look from a 3 set the other night:
don't iron shirt/t-shirt
messy hair
2-3 days stubble
jeans with rips

remember to control the frame and be C&F, then get her in with bait, hook, reel, release and use kino escalation.

Good luck dude!

Thanks for the replies. I'm sort of playing uncharted territory with this bad boy thing but I'm finding my way. I'm only worried about taking it too far.

By the way, is it good if she calls me a jerk?

Badboy attitude...

Shoot her in the face! - gunwitch

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