I was thinking about how often to text a girl first vs expecting her to text first. In my opinion it should be 50-50 but some girls it seems just will not initiate contact themselves. I don't like to initiate contact all the time because I think that sets a "chasing" frame. What are your thoughts?

For example, 2 weeks ago I arranged a day 2 with a girl. I texted her 3 days later and we text chatted a bit and then set up a day 3. It's been almost 1 week since our day 3, and she hasn't texted me. I also have not texted her, because I expect these things to be 50-50.

Also, I know she is into me... both dates were full of very heavy making out and touching... I believe the only reason we had no f-close was her housemate was there.

I don't understand why she wouldn't contact me again. Do some girls just "expect" the guy to make all the running? Also, should I text her first and risk setting the frame of me being the "chaser" all the time?

Let me just give you some small tips (generally speaking).

At first its not a bad idea to show her that your interested, BUT do it in a cocky/funny way and don't let her think that you really do care a lot if it goes somewhere or not. (This is to get her to think "oh hes a cool dude" And i like to leave the text conversation pretty short but powerful with minimum of nonsense talk like "if she likes cola or 7up".

Let me paint the picture; : show your interested (to the point that you feel that she might be interested in texting me back after the first text conversation) [if not then fuck it] STEP 2: Dont fail like most guys, take your time to wait for her to text you back, that might take some days. STEP3: When she text back you know you that shes been thinking about you, CONGRATZ

I dont know if this helps or not but i gave it a try