So i got this HB7 number in one of my classes! real cute eyes
I called her the next night she didnt answer, she called me back after a couple hours but i was in the gym, so i told her ill cal her another time

well i seen her this morning, we just said hey to one another and keep going

So i texted her later that day this is how it went
me: wats up XXXXX
her: hey
Me: i kno you was glad to see me this morning
her: umm if thats what you wana think u can lol

i got stuck here but i replied "the way your pretty eyes lit up, i think so" was this a good reply? and what could I have said to attract more interest? and from this can you really tell if she is interested?

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Old Player, New Game

I find that voicing assumptions is a risky game. Like when you make an assumption about something that she is thinking and then voice your assumption directly (she has open ground since she has not voiced what you assume she was thinking and so she can easily deflect and say that she has no idea what you are talking about).

so the text conversation ended like this

Me: the way your pretty eyes lit up, i think so lol
her: they always be lighting up
me: thats cute, we should hang out sometime this week?
her: i dnt think so sweetie
me: ok

did i lose her interest or is she just giving me a shit test?

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Old Player, New Game

I'm not an expert but this is my personal opinion. I don't think u built enough rapport before inviting her for a drink. there are also a list of text message openers over routines sections. they are really funny and original. After some humor, your target is more vulnerable. maybe try to tell her some story showing value and after you receive some IOIS you can go from there. I wouldn't invite any girl anywhere if we haven't had interesting conversations. Just think about it, if she really doesn't know you, there are low chances she will accept your invitation. Also, try to suggest invitations as a group or to public places.

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dmc89

Na, u lost her...why would you just walk by her and only say hi? That makes it seem like you guys barely know each other. and then with the text messages you sent, it almost seemed like you were not comfortable enough with her to stop and talk to her when you saw her and you only had balls to make a move through text.

If you get a girls number through warm approach (i.e. school, work, mutual friends etc) then calling the next day can be a little needy. Now, calling the next day is practically NECCESSARY a lot of the times for COLD approach, but not for warm approach.

And the first text you sent her "hey whatsup XXXX" is not a good text. Its boring and what every guy does. You gotta be a little more interesting than that.

"Hey XXXX, make or break question. Smores or cheez-its?"
or even "OMG something totally just reminded me of u. I'd explain, but you'd hate me "
something along those lines... OR you could even just say hey whatsup if you had given her a nickname, cuz thats always fun. I always give girls nicknames when I first get their number. Ill be like "OK I'm putting you in my phone as Jessica the psycho murder" or "OK I'm putting you in my phone as Crystal the gangster kindergarten teacher" Its always different cuz it always derives from something I teased them about or something I noticed about them or whatever but its always stupid and playful. SO that way even if i do just say "hey whatsup XXX" its ALWAYS more interesting cuz instead of "hey whatsup Jessica" its "Hey whatsup Jessica the psycho murderer" and that gives her something to play with, so she'll usually have fun with that and play back with me. I did that today with this girl I was texting for the first time and we went into this whole role play about how we're gonna rob banks together and stuff. Get it? FUN.... Hope that helps.

But I also think you just need to get out there more and meet more girls.

alright realy appreciate the help, but now is it to late to still talk to her?

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Old Player, New Game

Well, feel free to talk to her. You don't have to cut her off or anything, especially since you have a class with her. You might as well be friendly with her. Its always good to have female friends. BUT, she was being bitchy, so at the very least I would stop texting her for a little while. Keep talking to her in class and at school though, thats fine, but start meeting other girls too.