I have been getting the "I dont have much or any time these days", in response to asking a girl to come and do one of their hobbies with me. I usually throw the David D "Well then you should quit your job, drop out of school, and come hang out with me since I am more interesting anyways". The problem is these girls are in graduate level classes and are truly busy. What can I do to still hang out with them?





-10 looks, 10 personality- In grad school and said she doesnt have much time



-10 looks, 10 personality- Said she allready had plans and didnt want to blow them off

I also found that C&F doesnt work on the nerdy nice chicks. What is a tonned down approach to them when they are truly busy?

Something I've had decent success with is not asking them to hang out or what not, it's "telling" them to hang out i.e you say in a VERY excited tone GUESS WHAT YOU'RE DOING TOMORROW!!!!! and they respond equally excited with WHAT?!!?!?! and you say it's a secret but I'll pick you up at 8:00 or have them start guessing or whatever. Telling them what we're doing seems to get me flaked on or blown off, conveying mystery but making it seem like the most exciting thing in the world usually works for me.

Thanks! I will try it out