So i met this girl saturday night and we talked and gave me her number without even asking for it. I can tell the girl is needy, doesn't have too many friends, and it's a bit insecure. Now, last night I had an awesome conversation through facebook with her (i know i should have called her) , but it last 4 fucking hours. Now, the convo was really fluent and she ended up telling me that she really had a good time talking to me.

Today she texted me and I texted her back "we should go to the zoo this weekend" because last nite we actually talk about how we both like animals and shit. She said "sure". then i said alright g2g to x place talk to you later. Tonight I was just chatting with her but she talks with me about his fucking issues with some guy, and every time I try to tell a value story she says something like "oh a friend of mine did that too" or some bullshit like that. She changes the subject too. I also invited her out "Hey you should come and visit me this saturday. I gotta show you this amazing place" then she said "i gotta work, that sounded king of creep, like u wanted to show me candies and puppies" then I replied "well if u don't want to go it's fine I'll just take someone else" then she said " I gotta work sat" . BY the end of the night, she told me, "bye best friend, im tired if u wanna txt me its ok but im passing out soon" and I said "nah , im good.. later". After a min she posted on my wall "good nite new best friend Danny (my name) aka Denny ( she gave me a nickname which i took as IOI) then she immediately deleted the post. WTF? I'm planning on not replying her txts at all, or what should i do? I don't want to be his fucking friend. and what about the post? she took it out as soon as she posted it.

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well you rejected her conversation twice w/ an attitude, thats why she deleted her post. you havent mentioned that you complimented her, like texting her, "hey i thought you were rly cute in that dress you were wearing when i first met you" -good line also to say while she told you the story of w/e guy, you switch the topic right with that and continue. a example of being out of the friendzone would be this video below. but i already think you should move on and talk to more girls and just practice being sexual with her. shes working saturday, so on sat send her a text like "hey cutie, lets grab a drink on sunday during the day at x time." if she gives you an excuse, don't reply back, you demonstrate low value/needy/arrogance by replying back things like "nah im good....later" who does this, only some kid who is needy. a real man will not reply back to trifle things said by women and lets her have the last word like if her word was not worth replying back, by replying back you lower your value. first of all, you "invited" her to the zoo = date. why the fack would you ask her on a date to the zoo, you are putting her on pressure to decide if this is a guy that i want to go out, when she is already seeing someone. big mistake on your part. you need to take action like the guy in the video below and then she will knock the guy shes having problems with as an exchange for you. if she dodges your hangout this sunday(dont use word hangout) then wait till next friday to text her about the same thing i told you. if she rejects that, dont text her at all. move on you should be gaming multiple women not one or two because then you will cling on them like they are your saving grace. (desperate guy)

guy is 100% on natural game, he gets rejected because this gurl is looking for friends or is not looking for bf that fast. so in other words she is very slow, but if you watch carefully you'll learn the girl is like religious or from a culture where you take things slow, so DONT NOT BE CONFUSED, you have to be like this guy if you want to get laid/gf. the problem is with the girl in this video.

[youtube]http://youtube.com/watch?v=U4mjy0coDLY[/youtube]

Who knows why she deleted it. Maybe she got self conscious about it for some reason. But trying to figure shit out like that is a waste of time and won't help u. Don't worry about it....if you want to stay out of the friend zone, you are going to have to start HITTING in her. Fuck telling "value" stories. Telling "value" stories in this situation will only hurt you. Let her know you like her. And give her specific things about her that you like her for. And HIT on her so she knows you like her as more than friends. She probably likes you as more than friends too, but she doesnt wanna put herself out there, which is why you have to be the man and take a little initiative.

You need to act like a dominent male. Your txt to her were weak and let her control the conversation. I also agree that you need to make it known that you have interest verbally or it is FZ forever.

HB:
"My new best friend Denny"

You:
"My new Fuck Friend (name), as long as you don't get emotionally attached"

If id doesn't escalate you need to put the friendship on the line. Interested or nothing. Too many guys try to back door this and 99.9% of the time it ends in failure and then they get invited to there wedding without a date. Stop being a pussy and man-up

Dude the best advice I could give to her is just to completely cut her out from your life for now. Go out and game some hot chicks who aren't so weird and use it to get your confidence and C&F improved. That way if she ever decides to get back to you not only will you know how to be more alpha, which will attract her, you actually won't need to attract her cos u been gaming more hot chicks which will only amplify the attraction.

As for the guy issues, handle them like u dont give a shit. If she mentions a guy problem just be like 'wow what a player. He sounds like a legend blah blah blah. Its a good job I like this guy otherwise Id take you away from him to deserert island blah blah blah. I can totally tell this guys perfect though you'll probably get married in a few months and a house and a dog blah blah blah' her:well, its not that serious...

flip the script and get in control of this chick for fucks sake. freeze out and go PU some HBs dude!

Haha I actually loved this. And if you're bold enough it may work. Its a good gut check for her. If she's game, she'll agree. If not she's gonna back down and you can move onto the next one.