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Sounds like the girl youre textgaming is pretty in to you but the deeper you get in the comfortzone how harder you'll need to try to build attraction in order to get to the relationship sweet-spot.
Oh fo sho my dude!
I'm actually kinda doing both at the same time. Like Ok look at the physiology of this chick. She is 26 years old and sex deprived. She's looking for any outlet possible. I mean my last text (before my phone died was)
Her : We could have a baby
so obviously FZ (friendzone) is not a problem, in fact in this situation, I want to be in FZ, she's not looking for a boyfriend she's looking for a husband. Easy to discern within the first 15 minutes of talking to any girl. The FZ thing, is as long as I keep doing what I'm doing and playing not only her sexual/instinctual side(Telling her that she's smoking fuckin hott) but her sentient/strong individual side (like reassuring her that she's the most beautiful girl in the world.) You will be put into a deeper connection and she's thinking..."Who is this guy? He crashed into my life at full force, turned my world upside down, and I want to be with him forever and be the mother of his children."
FZ and AZ (Attraction Zone) are a fine line that we all walk at one time. And the only thing I can say is let the girl KNOW that you want her more than a friend. When she starts putting you in that, respond in a way that doesn't put you there.
IE
HER : Maybe we shouldn't be like this anymore
ME : I just need time to think, let me get back at you
Now when this happened, it was a thursday and I had already made plans to meet up with her and her friends on Saturday. So I rode the FZ, but kept it sexual in the texts. When she hung out with me (After txting me 3 different outfits ((I