I went up to a hb7 and asked where costa coffee is and then she said no sorry and i said ok then thankyou

then walked offf

i couldbnt approach anyone after that.

can you give me some tips please

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After she said no. you should have asked if there were any other coffee shops around and continue on the conversation. if shes receptive.

Pull out a chair at her table. Sit briefly, then stop dead while you're in the middle of your conversation. Ask what time it is, then tell her you're late for something. Say shes been very helpful or you had a good chat, and then walk away.

But right before you walk, turn around and ask for her number. You gotta be prepared for a rejection though, but if the conversation when smoothly enough. There shouldn't be one.

Edit: This applies only if she was sitting at a table, if she was standing, carry on as said but without the sitting part.

im guessing you only said thank you and walked away because in your mind you couldn't think of anything to say next and froze.

fuck routines, ask for directions, the immediately shift focus to her outfit, find something you like and start talking about it. literally say the first thing that comes to your head, good or bad.

dont worry about the results in this stage because if it goes bad, you will never see her again in your life.

try it, focus on just having a good conversation with eye contact and connect with her as another person. forget that she is a woman, maybe even imagine she was one of your guys friends, no big deal, right? i think you will start to notice that you CAN trust your instincts, and stop filtering out the things your brain thinks are bad. I think you will notice you can trust your body and instincts much more then your brain.