Today, I wanted to talk a little bit about how to have fun, energised conversations without the need to memorise any canned lines or routines..

Too many guys frustrate themselves and continue to do so by constantly trying to think of the 'best thing to say' to a girl. There is a secret to this awful 'myth' and that is.... improvising!

Getting good at improvising stories and responses to what girls say is essential to being interesting, unpredictable, mysterious and having the ability to be in control of your sets; hitting all the seduction
switches.

Improvising helps convey the right qualities without the need for "canned routines".

The key to learning to improvise well is being able to free up your mind and trust that what you say will be good. You don't need routines and made up bullshit to keep a girl's attention - your not an entertaining clown. Routines will and canned stories will make you be inside your head all the time, rather then in the moment.

Everything you need is already in your head. You just need to learn to get out of the way and let it flow!

Start approaching strangers with a completly random opener and story, talk for one continuous minute then leave. Then at the bars with girls. Don't worry if what you say is silly at first. Smile sly and make it clear that you are joking,

You will find that girls don't really care what you say as long as you are confident and don't bore them. Anything goes if it's interesting -- and spontaneity is interesting.

Once you have freed your mind up and made it more flexible, you need to add the layer of being able to convey attractive qualities while improvising. Start paying attention the kinds of stories that you tell. Steer them towards things that hit the Attraction switches covered above.

Learn to be spontaneous and to trust that whatever you say is exactly the right thing.

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I agree with you.

Its best to just way whatever you're thinking or ask whatever you want to ask without worrying about how the girl will react. Its not like any girl you approach is the last girl you will ever see!

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lot of truth there

nice post, I agree and I've been approaching girls like this as well lately. it works way better and feels natural.

But remember that although the community teaches us to talk 90% of the time at the beginning of a conversation (which is bullshit) - put the weight of the conversation on her aswell, it will build a lot of tension (.. which will turn into sexual tension )

Enjoy XD

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