Right so with relation to my last post, my old housemate Elly, told me to not jump in and like this girl (Ellys friend, who took my number and told me to msg her, when she was kissing some other guy 2 mins before hand) straight away - which I told her I wasn't, but for some reason she thought I did. She also said that, she's pretty into the other guy blah blah blah - I later recieve a txt from Elly "She just text me saying she really liked you and wants to be friends "

So that means she asked her - what an interfering cow!
So anyway later I recieve a text from the friend. Saying she'd love to come and see me, but only to catch up as friends, as shes not looking for a relationship right now." So she's coming down next saturday with this in mind - my question to you gang is this, shall I just continue with the flirting and kino as if she hasn't said this at all, or is there anthor tac i need to take to win this girl - any suggestions?

My instinct is to carry on as I would normally, I spent about a total of 30mins ovber the course of a whole night talking to her, spread out. She wants to "catch up", with someone she doesnt know, weird. Anyway - any particular techniques you guys know of here would be great.

RTH

Not lookng for a relationship is just her way of telling she ain't a slut who's just looking for a boy. My gf has told be for 3 years she saw me as her best friend and nothing else...

untill some girls liked me.. all of a sudden she LOVED ME like crazy and we've been together for 4 months now.

I'd say just use some regular game, use routines etc. you've tested and feel comfortable about. Neg her a bit etc...

Good luck but most of all: have fun!

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Yeah thats kinda what I figure - just carry on as I would anyway, we were pretty flirtatious with eachother when we met so toning that down would be abnormal. I don't really have routines, I'm a pretty natural conversationalist, maybe thats bad on my part and I should have some in mind, I just find most of them so unnatural. I general talk about rlevent stuff, be flirtatious and teasing and use kino when I can.

That's always good. But there are just things beyond "having a nice convo" that make the difference. Know a nice trick, or multiple... or fool around with her, as Mystery does: throw a pillow in her face and start a pillow fight. Whatever. Make yourself different from all those losers she know.

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