Hi guys, I went out last night and thought I'd try some opinion openers. They work, not that I doubted they would it's just I wasn't expecting the girls to react so much- going into stories about their ex's etc. kinoing whilst listening to me etc.

BUT once I'd finished with the opener I just did general chit-chat and then when her and her friends had gotten their drinks she buggered off. I clearly hadn't reached the HOOK point. There was definite interest, she was stroking my arm, making eye contact and she even pushed her boobs together in a suggestive manner directed at me -
HB7: "Do you like my schoolgirl costume?" (whilst pushing them together)
Me: That ain't gonna work on me sunshine. Haha If I'm being honest you look a little bit slutty.

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This is the kind of negging I don't get. The girl is doing sexual things towards you, and you neg her for it? Where's the logic in that? You want to punish her for escalating? Call me crazy but I think the correct response is "yes I do! Let's get out on the dance floor where you can show it off some more." Grab her by the hand and carry her away.

Some guys seem to think that negging is part of the standard playbook. Like, whenever they run out of material, whenever they're confused about what to do next, they neg. Knee-jerk negging, to no purpose. Personally I think negging is only to recondition a woman who's being a bit of a bitch. If she's acting too full of herself, like she's important and you're not, you deflate her. You don't deflate women that are giving you positive vibes, that's dumb.

This is my same sticking point. I've gotten good responses but can't seem to stack it forward with some more conversation.

I'm gonna have to respectfully disagree with bvanevery..

That kinda neg works perfect and nicknames like sunshine (btw I'm gonna implement this one haha), princess, prom queen, pornstar etc. work wonders.

But like he did say she escalated.. so quickly after give her a reward for doing so like stated.. come out to the dance floor or I guess your okay rub your boobs one more time and I might think about being turned on.

Also, I never thought I would hear myself say this until recently but little 'magic' tricks that you can do quickly and nonchalantly without looking like you're trying to actually do magic works great for not only DHV but conversation. ex. turning two dollars into a five.. when you're going to buy a drink or something..

That was a sticking point I ran into.. I finally realized my probably was worrying about it. The more you concentrate on not getting stuck the more you will.. same concept as saying don't think of a pink elephant.

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