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I have been seeing this girl, a HB9. And since I met her, I have been very bold with her, not just my actions but my speech... Being very attractive, I tease her a lot, and probe her curiosity a lot, playful sexual talk comes up a lot, as well.
However I wanna point out the power of being authentic, like I mentioned in the subject. Its really what took things to a more personal level between the two of us. Gambler always talked about his technique of Deep Rapport to build a very powerful bond with someone. Where you pretend to be genuinely interested in their aspirations. However, I found it much more effective to simply, open up, and reveal somethings about yourself, your aspirations, your goals, your dreams, your morals and values, your philosophies. This is very powerful stuff, as to her, you become much more than just 'that guy.' Remember, what women want out of a man, is not just someone who can provide to them sexually, but in general. I mean, it takes no tricks, no thought, you simply open up yourself, and this will make a very powerful impression on her. Afterward, you ask her to share her her thoughts and feelings with you, she, will comply, because thats what you just did. The best thing about this is that if you are playing a long term game, you can do this multiple times, each time probing deeper and deeper, and building a more powerful bond each time.
Now I know this sounds simple "build rapport," but I'm trying to project something more than that. Just open up to her. Share your life with her. Trust me, it makes the difference between a being genuine man, and a social robot.
Anyways, I know my post was rather vague, but its early in the morning here, and i gotta leave soon. So just post, questions/ whatever, and I'll reply. I mean this isn't a new discovery or anything. Its just a reminder to let nature take its course sometimes, and just do what feels natural.
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