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So I met this girl online through a friend. Like myself, she's a classical pianist (although she plays for 12 some years, I've only played 3). She isn't very hot but she's pretty as hell and I really enjoyed talking to her (note that I'm 16, she's 15). I did a few routines with her (Jealous Girlfriend, 5 Question Bet, Blood-strology) and I built a really good basis. I planted a root for us to meet - I study music in highschool and we have a big concert tommorow, so I told her a bit about it, then casually added "your friends are probably gonna be there, you should totally come too." She enthuastically agreed. However, after that she kind of shut down - disconnected for a while, blaming it on her computer, than excused herself telling me she had to go to a piano lesson. I don't if that's truth or a negative reaction, though.
Anyway, I was wondering how do think I should act tommorow when I see her. Should I be very active and try to k-close, or passive and let things flow? Recommend some routines of you'd like, I'd reallly apreciate it.
What do you mean she shut down after she said "yes" to your proposal?
what did you say to her after wards or what did you do? How could she shutdown on you if you did not say anything after she agreed to your invitation.
Or did she agree, you both went quiet. then 1 hr or so later she told you "my computer shut down"
if this is the case maybe she just didnt know what to say after the the deal was sealed on the date. to risk ruining it or making things weird.
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