Hey guys,

I am new, just signed up a few minutes ago, but already need some help!
There is this girl that i just started posting on eachothers walls ( she started). Now i don't know if she is interested or not, because she broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago, and her ex is in my class and i am friends with him.

But now about the posting, she asked few days ago if i knew couscous (a dish) told her i didn't, then she offered to make me some sometime. now i wrote her this a few minutes ago (i also asked about her dad's work because she gave me a hint to ask for it) :

Haha okay, what does your dad do for a living then? Is he a pilot?

Xx

P.S. when are you going to make me that Couscous?

she replied with:

He is by the way vice president or something, don't know how it is called in his business.

When would you like it?

Kiss


Now I don't know what to do... should I neg her for being cocky about her dad's job? and what about the couscous?

Thanks in advance

Donyoyo

definitely don't neg her off her dads job, if anything you can neg her for not knowing what he dads job is exactly, but id stay away from that. Now the next step would be to escalate the conversation and decide on a date. But I'm not sure how you'd put that in this situation (in PUA style). Cause normally your supposed to make her come to you for example. "hey, Thursday night me and the guys are going back (CLUB NAME) feel free to come by" You do this because you want it to seem like your not changing your plans to see her because she might feel like she has to change her plans to see you and who really wants that potential stress when you first meet someone. But if you just invite her to your plans already its a lot more comfortable for her to bring who ever she wants and make it another night out. But like I said I'm not really sure how to use that technique here, but hey maybe you can find a way to use it, just thought id help.

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Tricky situation which I've been in before!

If her ex is a good friend of yours then she might be using you as a way to get back at him. As sad as it sounds women tend to do this a lot.

If her ex has moved on and is fine with you flirting with this girl then you're golden

I've used a neg along the lines of "oh his job must be really important if you can't even remember eh! " and it worked for me. I'm no expert but it's just a suggestion.