I want to approach a girl in one of my classes who seems to have a nice and interesting personality but I don't know what to talk about I have read the guides but they all say talk about interests and stuff you have done but I think I have a boring life with interests girls would not enjoy listening to....

my interests are music (listening) films history and pc games.

With music I think she has a different music taste but im not sure what to talk about and do girls like guys talking about films and their lessons and if so what about them?

YES! I had this problem all my life in school.

It is perfectly okay to talk to girls about pop culture. Pop culture is movies, TV shows. The only thing that is 100% important is that you better make sure that both of you have watched the same TVshow/movie. Do not talk about some movie/TVshow she has never seen. It will bore her and destroy the point of talking about pop culture, which is that you suddenly know the same characters, the same events, and the same things to do while watching the show.

It is also okay to talk about the news to get to one point and not just tell a story. The point you want to get is that by telling her about shit crazy news story she will get on your side. She will say "yeah that is some crazy stuff" if you do this 5 or 6 times she will see you as a person who is just like here. Even though 200 million in the USA hold the same belief, lol!

Another perfect one is talking about shit that went down in school, fights, some crazy shit some kid did that you both know, some stupid shit your teacher did that you both know, some crazy shit some janitor did that you both know, some weird shit the principle of the school did to a kid.

THE POINT IS THAT YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT THE PEOPLE YOU BOTH KNOW AND THE EVENTS YOU BOTH KNOW ABOUT.


IMPORTANT: when you talk about your TV shows/movies you share be very fucking careful to not drag it on too long. I've talked about movies/TVshows we shared for like 3hours and she will start to see you as a friend. How to overcome this? Three ways.

-dominate the frame, look this up. Or it's just when you decide who talks and what topics get discussed now and what topics get discussed later and you decide what point she made or you made gets talked about.
-KINO! Fucking kino like crazy man. You want to get as close as possible to her by telling her "hey check this out" take out some coin, dollar, your ID card, your lunch card, your mom's sandwich, FUCKING ANYTHING that will require you to move next to her and show her the item up close. This works best when you're sitting in a bench or some chairs. Then the kino becomes easy when you're talking to her about these TV shows. The eye contact as well do intense eye contact with her so while you're in this movie/TV rapport conversation she does not see you as just a friend, but the dominant one. At some points talk slower to make your voice sound sexier around here. She'll pick up on this. And of course when you're making a point about something during the rapport touch her leg and rub your hand off it. Touch her arm and rub your arm of her, touch her shoulder and rub your arm off it, touch her waist or belly and rub your arm off her. NEVER keep your arm too long on her. At the most 4 seconds or so, you'll creep her out instead of turning her on with the rub offs, intense eye contact, 6-12 inches that ur bodies are apart, and your low slow sexy voice.
-eye contact just like i mentioned above.



Read my thread on rapport(conversations).
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