Personally I like to talk about myself a bit more (not like bragging) but just about what I like, rather than her. Because, I just feel hb 9-10's get interviewed all the time.



What are your thoughts?

I do ask her questions, after I feel I have DHV and been IOI'd by her, to allow her to qualify herself to me and to allow me to IOI her. Just earlier today I was with a girl and had to stop myself from "interveiwing her" her respones to my first 2 questions were weak and she didn't feel the need or desire to quailify herself. I stepped back and DHV'd again, she opened up. It was really a very simple converation though;
Question 1 "bla bla bla?"

Answer 1 "um Bla"

Question 2 "so what are you doing for new years?"
ansswer 2 "I don't know"

Me " I am going to a really good friends of mine, Mike, He owns -NAME OF HIS SUCSESSFUL BUSINESS HERE-, throws an awsome party every year, we have so much fun. You won't belive the trouble we got into last year.....bla bla bla

Her "well I was invited to bla bla bla but I don't know if I am going" then she hinted she would like to hang out on new years

Personally, I don't talk about myself all that much... One single interesting fact is enough for her to try to REALLY open you. Which is why I dont much believe in DHV. If you ARE of higher value, you do not have to demonstrate it. I prefer to ask questions that make her qualify/ DHV to me. I only ask a few questions until she drops her shield, then she will open up and want to know more.

In regards to your question however, Yes! I know that they get interviewed all of the time. Your job is to get her to open up to you, without forcing it with interrogative questioning. I like to say funny things to hear myself talk and see how far I can push it until she demonstrates value in order to get on my level.

LOVELY. Thats what I was looking for, thank guys.

I would look up 'The Juggler Method'. It's a really good read!!

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