Hi.
I am so confused that I was searching some help and found this forum. Hopefully you can help me.

Story.
I have an apartment in other city and we went to a little vacation with my friend. We went to club. He was driving I was quite wasted. We danced and were just chilling and then dj annonced that it is time to go home:D so we headed out and he brought car in front of the club. Then I was just chilling or i even dont know what i was doing but suddenly two girls went next to my car talking to my friendwho was waiting inside (one was like, perfect) I even don't know why they came but probably because car was quite a bit higher class than others and chicks smelled something good. We are totally ordinary guys who never do any pickup thing:D Then we stayed there and I was drinking and talked to some guys and so on. then suddenly one girl came out of nothing and there she was, just next to me and started talking. She is 3 years older than me and she was quite intelligent and i was intrested in her. then we talked a little and she said something about next day that maybe lets do something ... i dont remember exactly. Then she left with somebody and these two girls who came before were allready sitting in car and wanted to go with us. We were just driving around and so on . Then they wanted us to go to somekind of a party ... we are not intrested in going to totally stranger place so we headed home. (my girl- the one i talked to was there too and all these girls were somehow acquainted)
Then next day we sent messages in facebook (with my* girl) and next night we went also out, me and my friend and 2 girls. we went to club and danced but I didnt felt like she was in to me or... i just dont know. there was hardly any touching and so on. after club i drove her home and then texted her, said that she is very nice and so on, and thanked her for coming out. she answered that also she had a good time.
Then next day we headed back to homecity and i asked through facebook that would i call her if i go back to that city ... then she answered that i should do that and so on... i asked her msn and a bit after started talking to her. In the msn she didnt seem to be so intrested in and the lead talker was me. after little chat (most of it by me) i said that i need to go.
One thing is that we live in europe and today she had to go to USA to visit her mom and she is there for 5 weeks. before she left i didnt talk much, just said have a good flight and you know.
question is that, through facebook she seemed intrested. in real life not so much and same thing with msn. Im dont know how it is right to continue. Should i wait and see if she ever starts chatting with me or what. i would like to have her and i dont want to mess up things and i would like to have answer that is there any chance for me or not.

Sorry if my english is not the best one...

Nothing wrong with your English.

But this has got to be the most AFC'ish post ever written-no offense.

But at least you admit to not knowing pick up,etc.

You did so many things wrong,I dont know where to begin.

You'r texting th girl after the club saying thanks for coming out!!!?

You should've been laying the girl after,not texting her good night.

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ok
then i think its time for me to read the entire forum through and then try better.
Its just that I have never ever picked up someone or tried it. I have been picked up several times and thats all:D

K-loc is so much better than me at this seeing as i am only 16 but yeah that was afc of you..if i were in your position, if u still like her when she comes back, i myself would probably say...Hey is it just me or are all models crazy ? how do you tell a crazy girl that you don't see her more than just friends ?
if she says i don't know, say aren't you helpful, way to kill the conversation.

and if she gives you advice say . Wow good advice, you're the girl i met outside the bar right ? i need to come to you for advice more often



But once again i'm only 16 and no Pro...so before you say any of this see if K-loc responds to it ? he'll prolly tweak it a little. there's some things in there that come off like you're doing this on purpose

@Brandonc2-Thanks for the praise,appreciate it.

You giving good advice for only being 16.

I really cant tweek anything you said Brandonc2 'cause it was well put.

Im curious to know if any progress with Kix.

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i have like almost 4 weeks to wait but ill post here my progress if she is back:D We are planning to go on a new trip already in few weeks and after this again when SHE comes back.
Im working hard on this new PUA thing:D I need my confidence....
I want to live more fun life cause im so young (19) and I feel its not right yet to be in such a committed relationship as I am right now. For like over a year already. I think it has to stop and the next one I want to try is SHE