Title pretty much says it all, I'm related to a royal family (I'm not about to say which one), I don't think I'm better than everyone else because of it and I tend to keep it quiet because it might sound like I'm bragging, is it something I should use as a DHV or keep quiet?

Location: Derbyshire + royal blood = royal family of Britain ?


I get the feeling you like using a lot of MM. From my own experiences, MM didn't work for me, because it made me overanalysing things, while it didn't had to. Also, people started to see me sometimes as a (overcompensating) jerk because of it. Negs were insulting, DHVing was like validation seeking stories.

Message is: don't think about DHV, let alone the need of mentioning your royal blood. That doesn't mean you can't mention it when being talked about. But don't brag about it.

Talking is for being social. That doesn't mean it is'n important. But seductive eye contact, confidence, touching, standing close to her, tension, ... is realy what is about building sexual tension and setting up a seductive vibe, and thus seducing her.

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Good guess but no it's not Britain's Royal Family lol.
Yeah I'm trying to use the MM as I've only just started out on this PUA journey and people seem to say it's the easiest to start off with.

After reading up on negs most people seem to be saying that generally you really only need to use negs when the target is giving IODs. I've been concentrating on my Alpha body language recently and it really does seem to make a difference - girls seem to be giving me more IOIs than before so it definitely works.
I definitely need to Kino more, I'm not really a very touchy person.

So are you saying that DHV stories don't really work then?

wherever possible. your biggest DHV bombs should be dropped by a wing or pivot, pivots are particularly good for this. if a hot woman gives you a big DHV, you know the others are going to take it in! this one should work well coming from a wing tho. im in the process of getting a wing up to speed at the mo and it definitely has great benifits. try getting a mate into game or try and meet a wing of here.

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I'm trying to get one of my mates into pu he's with a crazy chick at the moment who treats him like shit.

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In my experience, certain attributes (such as money, looks, famous family background, etc.) only DHV if you don't explicitly point them out yourself. Banging your own drum is rarely an attractive quality, you might come across as needy for attention or trying too hard to impress. Let the girl find out in her own time, preferably from other sources (your friends, her friends, a newspaper, etc.).

A theoretical example I can think of is how a very handsome man would sound like a bragging tool if he boasts about how good looking he is. Similarly, if a very rich man goes on and on about how much money he has, it's rarely an attractive quality (unless you're looking to bag some golddiggers). There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I think just being nonchalant about your 'inherited' advantage comes across as more attractive because it demonstrates confidence and maturity, rather than insecurity.

The closest real world example I've experienced personally is similar in concept, although it doesn't represent an advantage from birth like yours: one of my friends from primary school has grown up to become a very famous pop star in the country in which we were born, but he's not really known in other countries all that much, if at all. If you imagine him going out abroad and boasting to girls about what a celebrity he is back home, you can see he'd come across as either arrogant or trying too hard to get attention even though he's technically being truthful. It's much more effective in terms of DHV if the girl finds out by herself (through a friend/wingman, or by looking up his name either via Facebook or Google).