Hey guys.

I have this question: imagine you're going in a date with a girl. You're to a bar/club. Would you offer the first drink?

I think offering the first drink and then say "you pay the next one" could be a good answer she coments "what? no, I pay mine! no way" bla bla bla, the usual being a good girl.


What advices do you have to this situation?

A big hug.

Prince Charles.

Get her a roofy-calada! Just kidding.

For real I read somewhere something that was a really good idea, depending on how well you know the girl or hell even if you just meet her and have some sexual tention.

If she asks you to buy a drink your response, here are two for you:


“Sure, I’ll trade you a kiss for a drink”

This is the one that works if you are ready to kiss the girl. or this would also be a good icebreaker for the first kiss. Sometimes it will lead to a lips kiss, kiss on cheek etc. Although a drink for a cheek kiss is a very easy trade for a girl, this would be a perfect time to neg and say "that deserved a bottle of water/soda"



“Sure, you buy the first round, and I’ll buy the next two”

This one will either shut them up or make them respect you.


You never want to offer to buy a girl a drink

you also dont want to buy a kiss either #imjustsayin

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If you buy her a drink, make sure it wasn't a waste

May I suggest you keep the drinks in the "Sexual Connotation" range

eg.
Sex On The Beach
Red Headed Slut
Blonde Headed Slut

or my personal favorite

Blow Job, that shot has served me well

At least you did the AFC thing of buying a drink, but kept the ball rolling with sexually charged alcoholic drinks.

Oh, guys, you are nothing compared to Peter: offer her a Roofie collada!

If she says "buy me a drink" I will answer "Sure. One Roofie collada for the lady." ahah
But this could actually be a good funny teasing in America, not here in Portugal, because noone will think about quagmire.

There are some useful advices round here, but my question was we enter the bar together, who pays the drinks?

so, let's work on this.

We enter the bar, ask our drinks and then we say "you pay this round, I'll pay the next two". This sounds wonderful. She will respect you and you're not giving the image of stingy guy, because you'll pay two rounds for one of them.
If the girl has good vibe, she will acepted, I'm sure.

And later, when is your turn to pay, you pay a round with those sex shots, and right away, you pay her a real drink.


If she says we won't pay the first round "how can I know you'll pay the next one?" or any other excuse, you say "ok, I'll trade you a kiss for your drink".

Ithink we developed here some good turns back to that moment.

A big hug

Prince Charles.

I never buy girls drinks.

I make it a point to not buy drinks for women I just met. If a woman asks me to buy her a drink, I would say something in a playful manner like, "I can't buy you a drink. I hardly know you." Then I would use that as an excuse to converse with her. After talking to her for a little bit, then I would offer to buy her a drink. The price of a drink is a good investment for getting to know her and possibly getting a number or more.

That sounds good, sounds like a good one to continue a natural game.



And I also used this once with a girl who was asking guys if she could drink from their glasses:

- Can I drink from your glass? (with a little devil smile)
- How about you paying us drinks?
she looked at me like "you think you are somebody" and said
- I don't have money.


This one is from Mystery. I didn't get nothing from the girl but I didn't lost either because that girl simply wasn't my style.
I actually grow up a little at the eyes of the guy who was with me.