I started seeing two girls in the same week. Of course the flakey one is the one I'm more attracted to. Go figure.

She's physically more attractive, had one hell of a personality and we connect better on a mental level.

Am I sure she's interested? Yes. We went out twice. And she made it clear she wanted to see me again after the second date.

What's wrong? She stood me up about 2 weeks ago, then woke up the next morning and appologized about it. I told her she owed me a drink, dinner and phone call the following day. She fucked up on the phone call and we text regarding getting together this past week. There were plans to get together on Tuesday, but I never pushed it and she never got back to me. I sent two kind of random texts the day before we were supposed to get together and no response.

Granted, she's overworked and in the process of moving to a new place. But I'm curious what I should do. Ditching her is definitely an option, but finding her kind is difficult (not the looks, the brain).

Sounds like she either lost interest or is a chronic flake. It's been two weeks since you went out the last time? No more mention of going out again after the Tuesday didn't happen? She forgot the night you were supposed to go out, but woke up and remembered the next day??? Really??? Sounds like BS. If she was really interested she would have remembered. Turn it around, if you are really interested, you would have remembered, if you are really interested, no matter how "busy" you were you would have made some time for a coffee, drink, etc.

If she's a chronic flake, then she's just used to flaking out. She has been allowed to get away with it her whole life. She's never had to face any consequences, and probably doesn't even think she did anything wrong.

Either way, I'd stop wasting my time and move on, too many others out there...

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Update:

Seems like many guys aren't willing to do this properly. After about 4 weeks, I text her and said "Curiousity has been getting the better of me. I'm just wondering what made you fall off the face of the earth. This isn't an elaborate attempt to change your mind, just curiousity."

To which she replied that there was nothing wrong with me. Something happened in her life that made her realize that she wasn't even ready for casual dating. She thought that if she just didn't reply to my texts that I'd just hate her and think she was a bitch.

Through that conversation, I was able to reconnect. And eventually I will ask her to hang out with me to see how she's progressing in her epiphany.