let me give you guys a bit of background info. we happen to be from the same asian country.. and we are both subscribed on facebook to some kind of asian news thing. anyways i was trolling one day and it ended up pissing her off and she messaged me on facebook to ask what my problem is. we ended up talking a lot on facebook.. i mean first it was arguing back and forth, but then it became more of getting to know eachother. i told her heres my msn.. add me if u want to keep talking. i find out she lives in europe. (im in america)

she added me.

so ive been talking to her for bout 1-2 months on msn. we get on cam sometimes. i can tell she likes me (plays with hair, smiles, etc) , but heres the thing. she has a bf in another country. he used to live near her in europe but now hes in austrailia (wtf?)

our conversations go very well sometimes... when i used negging and push/pull cockiness techniques ive been reading up on, they work.... but sometimes i just say hey wats up? and she says "talking to my bf".. i havent and i will not insult him of course.. ive been using techinques to slightly belittle her value with him by saying "i won't hold it against you " .. stuff like that. but dont get me wrong, she doesnt really mention him that much at all. in the early days she even told me how they're mad at eachoter adn they even broke up for a night.. something like that .. and at another point she told me one of her friends told her that she could do better... i just said somethings along the lines of "lol ok i dont wana get involved"

what can i do? any advice? i want to visit europe one day and if i do... . she also doesnt respond well to compliments, so after i tried it once and failed, i have avoided it... but she has not f'ing complimented me yet which has confused the f out of me. the most shes done is use a ":D" when i showed her a pic of me shirtless (i work out) and told me a recent pic i took of myself was "amazing". (i should have said amazing pic or amazing guy? but i didnt think of that at the time heh) i mean i am a decent looking guy. i'd say we're about the same on terms of attractiveness. i think i might be slightly better looking but i dont know i havent seen her in person.

also if it matters, im 21, shes a few years younger than me. by the way thank you for reading

honestly pal, if i were you i wouldnt bother with her. im sure you can find someone else closer to you..

you say you want to go to europe 'one day' these things may seem nice in our minds, but in reality they arent so good.

i say just carry on like you are doing with her. go out and play some game, im sure you can find a lovely girl who lives a lot closer

Point taken PinkFlange.

I've met many girls who cannot deal with compliments;not that I give them,but even indirect ones arent taken well.

Wow,2 months net chatting.

Usually when I meet a girl who's from another country,I usually lose interest in 2 days,despite a great chat.

Plus if she's having issues with her bf,there's nothing you can realistically do about it from overseas.

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thanks guys! i agree

glad i helped pal.