I've been dating this girl for only 2 weeks and it seems she's lost all attraction to me, she's a very contained girl and is very shy. We have a strong relationship while we text and we have hungout only 3-4 times, and that's just watching movies in the basement. I'm not sure if she has had her first kiss and we've done nothing besides hold hands/hug goodbye. It seems like i'm the only one moving forward with touchyness and physical romance while she is getting less interested in the thought of
"us".

I am not sure what to do about this, she is very nice and very sweet and normally this would not be my kind of girl but there's something about her? Anyone have tips of how to make her feel more comfortable around me? Or am i just being paranoid?

Thx for help
-I couldn't post this in relationships i don't have enough posts, but this seemed like the next best category

I think that you should change your approach.Did you try to hold her hand while watching movies. And maybe instead of wasting your time watching movies, why don't you get to know her. Girls like guys who care about their feelings. Try to understand her character traits. Try to understand her motivations and emotions toward something. Next time you go out, telll her: Look,NAME, we have hanged out only few times and talked about daily stuff, and it's not that it is not interesting but I'd rather get to know you because the feeling of getting to know certain humaneeing is amazing. It's such a pleasure to me to see how this humanbeing thinks, how she deals with different situations and bla bla bla."
This would be great. If you tell her that she will see that you care about her and you want to get to know her better.

from my point of view, if you have a girl that is 'contained' or as i call it a 'closed book' you have to view her one page at a time, most girls who are like this, are like this becuase the males they have known throughout thier life treat them bad, so you have to be the guy who is different, for example:

instead of watching a movie, which tbh is quite a common thing to do, and its not really making you stand out, go for a walk at night and watch the stars, will be cold so a good excuse to get close and slip in some cheeky kino , also shows her a deeper emotional side, without directly saying it. also gives you quite time to talk and connect.

this is exactualy what i did with my last girlfriend, and it worked a treat.

try and show your different without bragging about it, for example:

i took my girl to a club once and my male friend was thier, being who i am i grabbed her and told my friend 'Quickly tickle her' he said 'i dunno where i am allowed to touch and where not to' i said ' anywhere, i dont play the jelous boyfriend' this got me a few DHV points, KERCHING!

as for her not showing kino back, maby your looking for somthing that isent their?, shes allowing you into her life and personal space, just sit back and it will come eventualy, some girls and more closed than others, patience is a virtue.

another quick thought about only hooking up 3-4 times, whats so wrong with that ? not hooking up every possible second your free only shows your NOT NEEDY which ofc is a good thing, dont get addictied to a girl it will push her away slowly.

hope this helps, and gl

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