Just met this girl online that lives in my town, who i really wanna meet. But how do i take the next step to do this?

Subject: At first I was like "whoa"

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Me:
Hey, we got lots of mutual friends, but why havent I seen you around?

-John

HB7:
Yew livee in this town ?

Me:
yepp yepp

HB7:
School a ?

Me:
nooooooooooo school b hbu?

HB7:
*blah blah* i stood baCk in kinderqarden

Me:
That sucks :/ You dont really do much in kindergarten which makes me believe you were a real troublemaker as a kid. Lmao i can see it now. Taking an extra cookie, Eating all the glue, or even worse! Not sleeping during naptime lmao jk

HB7:
lmfaooo oh Yeah iwas a reaL bad ass [x

Me:
which makes me wonder how bad u r now ;P
Watchu doin now? Grand Theft Auto, Battery? lmao

HB7:
lmaooooooo ! naw im Juss muqqinqg an oLd lady >:]

Me:
Ahhh shit, your gonna be wanted! Your welcomed to hide out at my crib, though ;D lmao

HB7:
lmaoooo naw iqawts ma own seCret hidee out . cops dnt phCk wimmie lol :p

Me:
Lemme find out u really r wanted lmfao
nahh..lol what nationality are u? where does ur last name come from?

HB7:
lmaoo mexiCan qerman & 2% black & braziLian . & ma last names braziLian

Me:
How are you 2% black? lol Thats a crazy mix, beats mine lol
No wonder your brazilian x]

HB7:
lmaoo cuss iht was ma qreat qrand daddy , & lol Pshh wht chu trYinqg ta' say ? !

Me:
shitttt i might be 2% black too. I will have to talk to my mom and ask her wat MY great grand dad was lol and nahhhhhh i was saying that brazilan girls are really pretty, for what i come across lol

HB7:
-________- im mad everyone thinks im pretty cus im braziLian wen idnt even Look likee ma dad iLook EXACTLY like ma mom & shes mexiCan

Me:
Nooooo i think your pretty cuz your pretty, not cuz ur just brazilian lol. nd im pretty sure your dad had something to do with it lmao

HB7:
lmaooooo OMG ! iLook NOTHING likee ma dad

Me:
If Science and Health class serves me correctly, Both your parents give you 50% of their genes each lmao Why do you say he looks nothing like you? Is there really a HUGE diffrence? lol

HB7:
lmaoo okaiii welL iqawt ma dads skin . Lips & likee dha shape of ma head dhats iht

HB7:
lmaoo & ma hair

Me:
LOL ive never heard someone say they got the same size head as their dad lmao!

HB7:
lmfaooooooo naww ihts nawt likee dha sizee ihts like iqawt chubby cheeks

Me:
lmao oooook waaaaatever u saaaay lol

im bout to b out to go to the park, but your welcomed to text me
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HB7:
Yew ckan txt me *** *** ****

Me:
Thanks for texting back ;D lol

HB7:
lmaoo ihs dhat sarcasm ?

Me:
Of Course

HB7:
lmaoo punk

Me:
ayyoooo what!? lol i know i am ;]

HB7:
lol listen mo fo ima mess Yew up

Me:
Ooooooo I am soooooo scared of a girl who repeated Kindergarten lmfaooooooo j/k!!!

HB7:
lmaoo -________- ihatee chuu

Me:
I ♥ u 2 Kim x]

HB7:
noooo Jump awf a bridqe lol

Me:
Thats not nice

HB7:
lol iknoe [:<

Me:
Boo i dont like mean girls. Your the type that would chop me in 36 pieces if i came home 3 minutes late lmao

HB7:
lmaooo oh phckinqg welL coss idnt likee players either :p

Me:
r u calling me a player, or saying that in general?

HB7:
lol Yeww

Me:
aww seee, now you've had to go and hurt my feelings. No actually, believe it or not, im really romantic and i do have a dream of finding that "special lady". Just hate that ALL girls want is sex (I dont turn this down though ..). But it does make things more harder and complicated. Is it really THAT hard? I mean really? to the point where it makes me LOOK like a player? Im saying this is in general, cuz i dont know on what basis you wanna call me "a player" in lol

oh, and btw.. nice new Display Pic

HB7:
lmaooo diquee ALL qurLs want sex dhats wht quys want qeht iht straiqht :p
& thanxxx (:

Me:
Oooooooooook I guess it does depend in some situations. Scientifically, it depends on the persons hormone level. And girls can and WILL be down most of the time, and if not its not that hard to get girls in the mood.

Now..Weather your male, female, straight, bi, black, white, green, you do have a hormone level. Even if you dont share it with another person, everyone has one. You cant tell me you dont have one! lmao

HB7:
lmaoo . . . . . buh idnt qo around wantinqg ta' phck niqqas :p

Me:
you think i do? I know how to keep it in my pants! lmaoo

And i could already see your type: You have courage, some determination, Impatient, and you let your fears/phobias get the best of you sometimes. Athletic, and likes being in the lead.

Now tell me..was i close?

HB7:
O.o oh shiet . . . dats me ! except Yu ferqawt stuborn :p

Me:
Ahh yes, how could i forget that! lol
But my point is really, you cant base a performance in the past for chances in the future.

Did you know that you miss 100 percent of the shots you never take?

HB7:
lmaoo okaii dat part yu qot me all rong . itakee risks & shots like no other

Me:
Naa i wasnt saying thats how u are, im just saying in general

HB7:
lmaoooo ohh
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Sorry bout posting the whole log lmao, if u think i should of said something diffrently inbetween the log, please lmk. It will work out for experience in the future

In my opinion, online conversations should always be kept short, and your responses should always be relatively short. Don't ask too many questions either.

I like how you started the convo though, that was good. However, a better convo would have gone something like this:

You: Hey, apparently we have a lot of mutual friends... why haven't I seen you around?
HB7: Yew livee in this town ?
You: Yes
HB7: School a ?
You: Neah, school b.
HB7: *blah blah* i stood baCk in kinderqarden
You: What did you do? Eat all the glue?
HB7: lmfaooo oh Yeah iwas a reaL bad ass [x
You: Right.. well anyway, I'm off
You: I stop by school a a lot, maybe I'll text you next time I'm there... you have a number or something?

Spelling is also important when it comes to online conversations.. I can see you don't have too much of a problem in that department, but strive to form good, grammatically correct sentences - it will make you seem more mature and intelligent. Also, hold back on the emotions as best you can, and the "jkssss!!".


-Roz

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Thanks for the suggestions. But dont you think it would be a little too much asking her for her phone number and meeting up with her? Wouldn't it be a little to early? I just met the girl online lol

To much rapport seeking, not enough escalating. A conversation that long is friendzoning yourself.

Once things are going well (about 1/3-1/2 the way down this exchange), time constraint, say it's been real fun talking with you, let's continue this another time, let's exchange contact info. Boom.

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My opinion is that when you're online your goal should be to get to the point and give her a "take it or leave it" vibe. I don't encourage a lot of msn/facebook chat... keep it short, and always work towards making the girl feel like if she really wants to talk to you, she's going to have to do it in person.


-Roz

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I think you should tell her to meet up with you so you can teach her how to write.
Seriously, I couldn't even read that shit. Is she 15?

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- Julius Caesar, Rome

Were both 17 lol

Thanks for the advice, guys!

lol just from the dialogue and spelling i can tell they were young..u actually did great dude! u made the convo interesting and fun, u dhv'd, got some ioi's and pretty much did your thing..now its time to escalate!! do some cocky funny, and some seduction phrases

Man..

I do the same thing.

I mean, I'm literate.

The other night I had a really interesting Facebook conversation with an HB9 for probably like an hour lol...

From my experience with long conversations on the internet though, I think it's safe to say that THEY ARE BAD, VERY, VERY, BAD. Even if they're overtly sexual, just don't do it!