Will telling a girl she's blushing cause attraction?



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 04, 2010 6:58 pm 
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Strange question I know but I'm just wondering if you tell a girl she's blushing will it cause attraction? Not sure whether it'd be classified as a neg or not?

It'll make her more self conscious but will it attract her more?

Just went out to buy some food and decided to open a HB7 who was working there for a bit of a laugh, she was blushing quite a lot and was thinking about saying something like...

Omg you know you've gone really red, are you not used to talking to guys?

I resisted the urge and stayed quiet though lol.


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Well, depends.

If it is a hot girl with high standards, if you get what I'm saying, saying that she looks like she's blushing or shy may be working as a neg. However, I don't call it a neg, as naturals would say it as well. It's just a teaser which lowers her defence. It doesn't create much attraction, appart for the fact that it's quite cocky to say it perhaps.

It can create a big additional amount of attraction when it is said at moments you had activly increased the sexual tension. Like you kinoed her alot, you're holding her hand or/you're stroking her leg, at the moment you (almost) know that it's on, you can say "are you blushing?/(you look like) you're blushing" to her to build more attraction while looking seducivly in her eyes. The underlying message is "you're exposed. I know you want me".

But litteraly saying this:
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Omg you know you've gone really red, are you not used to talking to guys?
... is quite offending to my opinion. The only occasions it might work I think is when you say it to a hb9 at a bar, because it's quite rediculous that hb9 would be shy. It's funny also because normaly it's the other way round: guys get shy of her.

But no material to say it to an hb7, especialy not as an opener at shop to someone who works there. Here it's better to say something natural or situational. If you're a nice guy, don't pretend to be a jerk.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 04, 2010 8:26 pm 
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It can create a big additional amount of attraction when it is said at moments you had activly increased the sexual tension. Like you kinoed her alot, you're holding her hand or/you're stroking her leg, at the moment you (almost) know that it's on, you can say "are you blushing?/(you look like) you're blushing" to her to build more attraction while looking seducivly in her eyes. The underlying message is "you're exposed. I know you want me".
Yeah I think that's why I thought it might work - the fact that you're pointing out that she's giving an IOI that she can't control.

Do you think it'd create attraction when said to a girl who isn't attracted to you?


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Good question. This depends also on the situation perhaps. To my opinion: a girl who isn't attracted to you = a girl who is not interested in you. A girl who is not interested in you will reject you and not care what you say, whatever it might be.

So it is used to make a girl who is already slightly attracted more attracted to you.

In any case,whatever you say won't have any effect if you don't send out a flirtatious or sexual vibe. Body language is important: having seductive eye contact, showing confidence and standing close to her and touching her tells more then a thousand words. Keep that in mind. Without having good body language and tension, it will have no effect. But with the good body language and tension, it creates extra attraction.

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Nice, I'm gonna try it out. Perhaps with a Kino cheek touch or something.


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