| Okay guys need your help to clarify if I´m in the not desired friend zone.
I have One-itis (yeah I know thats little AFC, but yeah I have been gaming other girls ), This girl I have known since 2 years ago. She, a 9.5, has been dating other guys, we did a very good connection from the first time, this was before being a PUA.
Just a little background, we started hanging out 2 years ago but in that time I was not interested in a relation but I did create a lot of tension.I actually behaved like an alfa but she was really confused If i was really atracted to her I can say she did want to have something more, there was a lot of kino but never a kiss close. So she started dating another guy 10 years older than me but she didnt told me about that, we just lost contact. In one point of her relation with this guy I saw her again, again a lot of kino and she never mentioned that she had boyfriend but I knew it and she didnt know. But with time she had to admit that she had boyfriend cause things started to get a little complicated and lied me that she just got in the relation. Told her I liked her but we should cut contact for good "but we can be friends" I didnt fall in that. she was like shocked with puppy eyes. 6 months later i called her and decided to hang out but she flacked me and told me she was going in a trip with his boyfriend and told me next week to see us, I just replied again that "No its not a good idea, we should not see us again (in a really calm way), she was shocked again, call me when u have time".
6 moths later (last week), she called me "hey what have you been doing, tell me blah blah bla (alot of iois). She called me again and asked my opinion on some places and invited me this weekend to he birthday party. (she broke with his boyfriend, but she didnt tell me; i knew it by her satus in facebook)
Here is the story. I saw her yesterday, I was the only guy invited to her party. She gave me a lot of IOI, I just played really cool but at the same time kinoing really hard. DHV with her friends, actually 2 of them where giving me too many IOI´s. I was an Alfa. Talked to her and told me "you know you are really good friend" I just continued talking with her and more kino, and tried to start closing the distant very close to her lips but she just took some steps backward. I couldnt kiss close.
So, Why she contacted me again if she knows we cant be friends and I like her?
She is giving me too many IOIs but I couldnt close, she didnt let me.
She needs time or I was placed in the friend zone?
Her signals are very positive but told me we were friends. She know if she start dating another guy we will lost contact again, she has it very clear in her mind!!
She told me we should start seeing us again. But Its just like friends????
Guys in this one I really need your opinion, what is happening here, what i need to do????
Hope you can help me, i´m confused
Thanks a lot mates
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